>>16890908 If you were truly happy outside of a relationship. Aka, happy with yourself, you wouldn't be seeking validation through the means of a relationship.
If you feel unlovable, it clearly speaks that you don't love even yourself. Fix that first, getting into a relationship when you don't fully love who you are will only end in disaster, it will only cause more pain, and then you drag a second human into this. If you honestly don't think you can love you, go out and explore, find out who you want to be. Become happy with yourself and you will gain confidence. Then you can be a solid pillar in a relationship. Otherwise, collapse is likely.
>>16890908 Either be happy with yourself or find a boyfriend. Assuming you're in highschool, go sit with the anime nerds, they aren't hard to spot and hit on one of them. Find the least crazy most attractive one and say one nice thing and put your hand on his arm. He'll be your bitch and give your life meaning because apparently being valued by a penis is the only thing you care about. >>16890916 Find a fucking hobby.
>>16890930 Then think about your hobby instead of how poor you isn't' loved. Go to a bar, grab a drink and find a dick. I don't mean the body part, I mean some asshole because normal guys don't go for girls with no self-respect. >>16890923 Fucking this.
>>16890927 >>16890930 You sound like a high schooler. Since you are looking for someone to love you. Ohh boo whoo, muh emo.
By negating what was mentioned about self love (not flicking the bean), you show you don't want to hear it. It's clear as a sunny day. Love you first, then another. If validation is what you seek, find it in yourself first. Chads love girls like you, so easy to pry on. A beta might see interest in a person like you, but likely you'll both end up resenting each other. An actual person, they may see something in you, stick it out for a bit then be turned off by that lack of confidence. It's not sexy, on men or women.
Sex, you can get it like >>16890948 said. Cock is out there for grabbin. If you want a real relationship that won't go to shit after a few months, you gotta work on yourself first. Even a 3 or a 4 can jump up with some confidence. Like fat guys that have a 6 or 7. Sometimes it's money, sometimes it's actual attraction. It's about the same for clams.
>>16890908 except that is exactly what that means when you're not happy because you're not in a relationship. i dated someone for 3 years and after we broke up, it felt weird because i was single for the first time in a while. but after a month or two, you learn things about yourself and you discover interests/hobbies/etc. being single is about you. relationships are nice but you don't need to be in one. i'm happy when i'm in one but i've also learned to be happy when i'm not.
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