Hey guys and girls at /adv/ I need some help with this badly and it's kind of freaking me out.
So I have this girl best friend and that's all we've been no sexual relations at all, so yesterday morning she sends me a text message saying that she has a few people coming over and I told her I wasn't gonna go because I wasn't feeling the vibe.
I ask her an out of a blue question if she just wants to come over to mine and she asks me if my parents are home which was not expected. Fast forward a few hours it's closing in on 1:00 and she keeps asking me if I can come and I tell her I don't know how I'll get home etc and trying to get myself out of it but I eventually say fuck it I'll just go out.
I get to her house and she sits with me and we are talking for a bit as normal and we go outside and sit around the table and drink and socialise as normal people would do. I go inside and she follows me and all I was doing was checking my phone and getting a drink and she kept following me whenever I'd go do anything, I go upstairs to her room and she takes photos of us together and at this point I'm getting confused about this.. I tell her that I am gonna call an uber soon and she keeps saying to me "Just stay, there's room for you".
Fast forward another few hours we're sorting out sleeping arrangements and she puts me in with her in her bed and I'm like mm okay, we all get ready to go to bed and people are still drunk and loud so she gets into bed and I get into bed then some other guy gets in the bed aswell? I was dozing off to sleep and she put her head on my shoulder and was snuggling against me and put her hand on mine and I was thinking 'uh fuck what' so I did the normal thing and snuggled with her and we started spooning and I put my arm across her stomach and about 5 minutes later the other guy in the bed moves my arm off her and I was like what the fuck? and he put his hand over her so I got up and backed out and pissed off down stairs and crashed on the lounge.
Fuck bitches who play games, don't stick your dick in crazy. She had her chance, not your problem if she makes it weird. Don't worry about it and move on, act as if nothing happened and you couldn't care less, if necessary.
So ur cuddling ur girl and another guy just picked ur arm up and took over? And so you walked away. I think this is quiye possibly the most beta thing ive ever heard. No girl wants a guy with such a complete lack of balls.
I came here for advice and this is turning into a roast haha damnit, so you guys reckon I should just stay the fuck away from her if she's crazy?
I did make a fucking move, I was spooning with her for legit 15 minutes.. keep in mind we're only friends and I never thought she would want me doing this, I didn't wanna go over the top and give her the 3 finger shocker and make her wet the bed.
Not every day, but I would do it in the right moment, like an immediate death in the family or something was serious and emotions were way down.
You know what I wouldnt do with my mum or sister?
Yeah, right in the pussy.
Look brah, at the end of the day it isnt to do with what I think its got to do with what women think, and here is yet another example of women wanting a man who is willing to tell another guy to fuck off, and then to fuck her without asking permission. just like your mate she fucked did.
You want some too? Stop complaining on 4chan and do what the successful guys do.
making a move is caressing her arm, kissing her neck, breathing next to her ear, letting your hands go over her body, gently sliding your hands beneath her clothing.
or just put your fucking hand on her face, move it towards you and start kissing her.
you can spoon with any platonic female friend, it's called being comfortable with eachother and enjoying eachother's company. it has nothing to do with sexual tension unless you make it sexual.
Holy fucking christ, this goddamn board. Read this carefully. It's something that plagued me when I was younger until I gained some experience and realised how goddamn pathetic I was.
IF YOU ARE IN BED WITH A GIRL, SHE WANTS YOU TO MAKE A MOVE AND FUCK HER.
She does not want you to lie there pathetically with your arm "brushing" across her, she doesn't want to put her head on your shoulder and nuzzle with you, she doesn't want you to spoon her, she wants you to kiss her, to touch her, to make a goddamn move, and to fucking fuck her.
So, let's get this straight. This girl invites you over, follows you around, sets things up so that you sleep in the same bed together and you.. you leave her with another guy in her bed, who she then fucked?! You got made into an absolute beta, she probably thinks you're gay. There's no way you're ever getting anywhere with this girl again. Move on.
Oh my god this board, I often think that these must be troll posts.
>IF YOU ARE IN BED WITH A GIRL, SHE WANTS YOU TO MAKE A MOVE AND FUCK HER.
this counts 90% of the time.
I got set up with a 28yr old diplomat by her boss, I'm 23 but said fuck it, went out for drinks, told her I needed a place to crash since I didnt live close. she told me i could sleep next to her since she had a big bed. we got back to her place, got into bed, held hands a little, moved closer, started spooning, rubbing, kissing, then we fucked for 2 hours.
it's not rocket science, but you gotta make some move and not be a little bitch. this was a woman who knew what she wanted and she gave clear signs throughout the whole evening. pick up on them and act on it
It's unbelievable isn't it.
>This girl stripped naked, bent over in front of me and said "stick your cock in me, anon". I wasn't sure if she was interested though, so I left. Does she like me?
Not to mention all of the posts where the guy is like,
>So I really really like this girl and Ive been texting her every day for 3 weeks and now she wont reply, no matter how many times I beg.
Like.. dude, you think shes into dudes so pathetic that they message here every 15 minutes holy shit. The dudes shes fucking are way to busy being men for that shit.
Listen you fucking moron.
He fucked her, you didnt.
Stop fucking complaining and do what needs to be done to make your life better. If that means fucking the cute girl you;re into then do it.
Stop moaning online about how youre a fag and this dude wasnt, and go and do what needs to be done to be more like him.
Holy shit you pathetic fucking moron.
Get to the gym, flirt with women, and make some fucking moves you pussy.
I cant do this shit for you, and encouraging you to hate women wont help. Just man the fuck up, step up to the plate and be like all the guys who are getting what you want.
The question of the thread is "does she like me?"
I don't care that the other bloke pumped her?
I'm implying the shit that happened and if that would affect if she liked me or not. But thanks anyway mang, been a good help. I don't have any feelings for the chick as she's my best friend.
Listen to all those wannabe "alphas" in the thread, make no mistake they would of done just the fucking same, in fact I doubt they would of even made it as far as the same bed, too busy flexing their chicken limbs at every passing girl.
If she was genuinely interested than that other guy wouldn't of even been there, she would of told him to fuck off when he tried climbing in bed. She's an attention seeker basically and after attention from every guy going.
I've known loads of girls like this. They're the type that fuck bouncers in clubs simply because they're "tough guys". Keep her as a distant friend whilst she's in this phase, she'll try it on again with you I guarantee it
>I don't have any feelings for the chick as she's my best friend.
Stop lying to yourself you moron. If you want to go get some women, do what has to be done.
im done here, its up to you to fix your shitty vag free life, not me.
And to answer your question, it's a yes and a no. No she certainly isn't after a relationship with you, but yeh you could of nutted one in her. She tried it on with you for attention and to prove she could "get you"
>If she was genuinely interested than that other guy wouldn't of even been there, she would of told him to fuck off when he tried climbing in bed. She's an attention seeker basically and after attention from every guy going.
Which is exactly the point. She didn't care who fucked her, she's a whore who just wanted to get laid. Anon had the prime opportunity and messed it up.
Granted, anon shouldn't care whether a girl like that likes him or not, but sex is sex, and if the opportunity is there, you might as well take it.
They're not all like that, the more confident ones are more likely to be like this though. Then again the more confident ones tend to be the more interesting and enjoyable people to be with.
Girls just wanna have fun, sex is fun so they'll have it, don't hold it against them providing they're not being dishonest.
she kept following me whenever I'd go do anything, I go upstairs to her room and she takes photos of us together and at this point I'm getting confused about this
She isn't a psycho, you're a moron. She's alone with you drinking and doing cute chick shit, and after you were too retarded to read the signs here she gets you in bed with her.
After you still don't fuck her she moves on.
Why are you surprised by this?
Some other fucking retard was taking a polaroid of us too, whenever we'd split off from the group people would come find us.. it's stupid as fuck I know and it's hard getting privacy but I will try something with her next time, will save pics for you guys too seeing as you're probably into that shit.
You still want to fuck her after she basically let any man stick his dick in her? Even some random dude who just happened to be close? How the fuck cna you still be attracted to her?
'somewhere private' nikka this isn't a fucking mansion where there's a bathroom for every room in the house, it's a standard two story house with all the lights on everywhere and people in and out of rooms all the fucking time.