I'm a virgin and before going all the way with my long-term boyfriend I want to give him a BJ. I'm worried that I won't be able to do a good job since I've never done anything sexual. Do any guys have tips or tricks that will make it feel better for him?
Dont just suck. Try many things. Lick, twirl your tongue, blow gently. Get creative, learn what he likes and do it more.
Do stuff with your hands. Cup his balls, grab his shaft, play with his legs. It shouldnt be mouth only.
Look him in the eyes when you can.
Dont be afraid of his come, it wont hurt you.
Alright - CONDOM my good buddy if you prefer not to have cum in your mouth later - but if not, you do you. make the experience better - get a flavoured one or some flavoured lube if you're not using one.
Basically, think of it like a really nice icepop. You want to be careful, and for the love of god, never use teeth. my last 2 partners flinched because i thoguht it was a good idea (learn from your mistakes). Go at a steady pace, up and down, squeeze your lips a bit or extra pressure. If you want to rotate your tongue around - go for it. And if you need to, come up for air to ask if he wants to change how you're going.
stay safe and have fun!
KEEP THE TIP IN YOUR MOUTH
make sure its hermatically sealed. Lick around the head as you do. Lick a lot. While its in your mouth. The most sensitive part of the penis is the bottom part of the head. Find a way to get your tongue over there and lick away. This should be done just as much as sucking.
Now you have two hands. 1 hand much always stay on genitals. The other hand has 2 options. You can go sensual route and rub and squeeze his body as a form of communicating how much you are enjoying doing it. Or you can go for maximum pleasure and put 2 hands on his genitals.
You are going to want to massage his balls a lot while doing this. As you really get into it you can stroke his cock. Two hand stoke and bj to finish the job. Mix and match hands. 1 hand on balls and other stroking is pretty great to reach PONR
No, its do to porn and death gripping. A vagina feels completely different than masturbation and if you use porn its near impossible to actually feel the vagina if you do. Its not nerves, its just learning a new trick. If you dont use porn or masturbate than you are fine. It actually happened in reverse for me. I had a hard time staying hard after I picked back up masturbation and porn.
The advice here is good so I'll just reiterate what I think is the most important point. DO NOT USE TEETH. Teeth scraping your dick is not a pleasant feeling.
Also be sure to temper your expectations. He is either going to cum super fast or not be able to cum at all. If he can't cum at all that means he probably needs to stop death gripping his cock when he jerks it.
When you squeeze as if you are fucking a super tight vagina. It feels the best. The problem that people usually get though is that a vagina actually feels like a hotdog in a hallway unless the girl is amazing at sex with amazing kegel muscles so sex is very unfulfilling.