I've had crushes on guys before but it's always been friends or acquaintances, not the guys I go on dates with.
I got tired of being alone and started online dating, but I've never been able to develop feelings for any of these guys. How do you artificially create a crush?
so why arent you dating the guys you have crushes on instead of randos online?
if they're in a relationship you might just be the kind of girl who can only want something you cant have
>so why arent you dating the guys you have crushes on instead of randos online?
Because so far they've never liked me back, I wish they did though.
Early on in the crush I'm usually really hopeful that there's a chance they might like me back, but they never do
you pretty much cant
and not a lot is going to help you be attracted to online dating guys, especially after you've been with a few, start getting tired of the cycle and cynical
maybe work on your personality game a bit more to be attractive to men, hobbies, cooking, cute shit, videogames, acting more feminine
a pretty face
an extroverted personality/wit?
I try to be extroverted and witty but it's just not in me
I guess I could save up for surgery but my friends all say you can always tell when a girl's got facial surgery
Are you me? Guys think I'm pretty, smart and cool, but none of the guys I like doesn't seem to like me back or show me that they're interested. All the guys I meet online are uninteresting, and I'm not vapid or shallow at all.
Maybe you like the guys you know in real life because you know them better and longer. While first dates can really go well maybe give it another date or two to see for sure. I'm not saying lead anyone on, maybe even tell them it takes you awhile to know someone. Online dating is tough, I'm trying other methods right now. Do you feel the same with guys you meet in person such as a friend of a friend.