Does ethnicity play a role in attracting women? Pic related is me and I have no gf and I've been getting rejected lately. Can't even get numbers. My personality isn't shit because people who know me say I'm nice.
Auschwitz-mode is shit. Stop skipping leg day, too.
Your personality is shit, obviously, and the 'nice' proves it. Think on this, and develop an actual personality.
Despite what porn implies, most white girls don't go outside their race for relationships or sex. Asians also won't be interested.
>>>/soc/ would be much better to help with this.
>skipping leg day
You were saying? I also get rejected by my own ethnicity too.
I can't really tell what ethnicity you are exactly but yes ethnicity is a factor in people's natural and thus potential sexual response to you.
If you are simply looking for a better rate of success with the ladies, it is best to stick to your own race, as they will, statistically, have the most neutral or hopefully positive response to you as a stranger.
Word of advice don't be "nice". "Nice" is hollow. Be a kind, compassionate human being with respect for yourself and others. Don't worry about your track record and just don't give up. Men AND women will admire you for these qualities. Good luck OP.
Being "nice" is the psychopathic douche who thinks girls owe him sex because he buys them gift or flowers her with attention when in actuality he's an asshole to other people.
Kind and compassionate is someone who is genuinely kind because that's who he is.
To me at least, nice is simply not being rude, more like just being civil. It says little about someone, and if one is nice but is not truly kind it comes off as fake.
Kindness and compassion are more about being good in spirit, genuinely wishing well upon others and doing things to further that desire. Again I'm not Mr.Webster this may just be my interpretation of these words based on how I've heard them being used around me
One is not attractive and the other isn't. Don't listen to this drivel here >>16877627 as anyone who isn't mentally challenged understands that simply buying gifts does not entitle them to sex, it is just a cop out to not feel bad for stringing betas along becase if Chad treated a girl in a special way and treated others like shit she'd swoon hard.
Fuck, this >>16877648 was meant for this>>16877620
What the hell is wrong with this board anyway? I can never quick reply without it giving a connection error so I have to tediously copy post numbers and go to the top of the thread.
Let me guess, you also get the thing where if you click update at the bottom it also gives the connection error.
But yeah, it is literally only this board that does this shit for me and I never actually asked anyone why till now.
It depends on region.
Liberal major cities, nobody gives a shit if you're a nigger, chink, or white. Just don't be an unattractive creep.
If you don't want date in your ethnicity, that's fine. Ignore the haters.
But don't be blind that your skin color will play a role. If you live in the middle of nowhere then move the fuck out and don't look back.
If you're arab/indian, go for european girls or the white-ish latina girls (assuming you're into whitey). american white women are almost as racist as the japanese, which is pretty fucking racist
what a fucking retard
nice, like another anon said, is mostly about being civil, polite.
compassion is response to someone elses shitty situation/pain in which you actually 'feel' for them
>My personality isn't shit
Yes it is.
If you have to mention your personality at all, then it's shit.
>I'm a good guy
>People say I'm a good guy
>I'm a terrible human being
>Get to know me
>Does ethnicity play a role in attracting women?
Not particularly. Most women can be divided into camps: the kind who don't care, and the kind who do care. It almost goes without saying that your ethnicity doesn't hurt you with the kind who don't care, but it doesn't help either.
But even for the people who do care, it's still not all that big of a help. That sounds strange: after all, it can get you into dating pools that you might otherwise be excluded from. But those pools still contain thousands if not millions of men, and your ethnicity won't help you against any of them.