>>16871148 I would let her do whatever the fuck she wants, she just wouldn't have a relationship with me afterwards. After a while, you learn not to take women too seriously, otherwise you're going to have a bad time.
>>16871148 Fuck no. And I'm a female. If my boyfriend wanted to do that, I'd be pissed as hell and lay down the law straight out. It's one thing to have friends of the opposite gender, we both do. But we both would never be okay with the other going and hanging out with someone who they were "matched" with. That's a recipe for trouble and drama. Nope.
>>16871151 Oh, and might I add that if she really wants to do that, and insists upon it, she obviously has no respect for you, so if she won't take your feeling into consideration on this, then it's time for you to move on.
Yes, she wants to go, but on what purpose? Maybe she doesn't have too much friends and thinks that her old tinder match might be a bretty cool guy to hang with? Maybe she's a tad bored and just wants some extra attention from a guy who she barely knows? Maybe the relationship is a shit and she's looking for a way out? Or maybe she's just curious.
On the other hand, if their relationship is really good and they completely trust eachother, then it doesn't even matter, because nothing will happen anyway.
You see, I'm the guy who asked her to have coffee with me. Last time we spoke, she was in a relationship, so I assume she is one now. If I were in his boyfriend's position, then I'd be upset too, unlesss I didn't really care for my gf or not.
>>16871148 This is a test. Did she tell you about this date? If yes, shes trying to invoke jealousy. Just tell her she can do whatever she feels like but subtly suggest you will not spend the time she is gone alone. If she didnt tell you, find a new gf because she planning on branch swinging you bro.
>>16871195 >Last time we spoke, she was in a relationship maybe they just broke up, or they're going to... either way you're getting into someone who's either >a cheater >using you to get over her recent ex neither likely to be quality ltr material.
I want to meet her face to face so I could stop being slightly interested in her. You know, you want know what a girl is like, you meet, you chat, you have a nice time, but in the end of the evening you're just "meh, nothing special" and you no longer care. So curiosity and I want to see where it goes.
You know this is dodgy as shit - he might be "just a friend", but he aint gon' see it that way. Shit, you don't know what this guy is to her - a potential thing on the side, a back-up plan, your replacement.
But holy shit, you try telling her what to do, and suddenly, because you're a man, you're controlling and abusive. She knows this, she's got the argument done in her head already - when you object to this she's gon' make you look like a right psycho.
She might even tell this guy, get this guy to beat up her "abusive boyfriend".
Shit fuck, I'd just dump her on the spot right now because this game is rigged the fuck against you. Shit she's probably already deciding to cheat. Either way she gon' get dicked.
Your choices are; >Ignore this gaping huge red flag, confront her and try to prevent what I'll assume is inevitable. Only to potentially end up being labelled "abusive". >Dump her, by text, so she's forced to text back - evidence you can save if the accusations start flying. Tell her you want nothing to do with her. If she calls, don't pick-up, force her to text.
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