i dont understand why people keep asking this sort of question. coping is how you deal with the issue. theres no step by step process. its like asking 'how do i start breathing?' you just breath. its the basic form. its the simplest of instruction. if you cant do that on your own, ur fucked, cuz its an entirely internal experience.
if ur unloveable either 'cope' with it, or make urself loveable
>>16870945 >become the kind of person that you would love
As it turns out though, both men and women care a shit-ton about physical attractiveness. There's things that can be done about it usually, but when it comes to certain things like skin, height or breast size, you can't change them.
Every now and again I think about how much more girls would like me if I was taller, and possibly white. It really kind of eats me up on the inside, but I recognize that nothing can be done about it. So I just deal with the fact that the vast majority of women find me unattractive, and outside of working out and making money I can't fix that. And I can't fix the fact that I'll never *really* be the man of a woman's dreams (because those dreams involve a tall, built white guy with a lantern jaw), or the guy that's really chosen by women. I have to really, really put myself out there a lot, and most of the time I'm Ok with it but sometimes, I think about the reality of how much harder I have to work to gain things like love and respect. And it makes me upset.
I do have hobbies I enjoy, and at least most of the time I can count on friends or family members to interact with as people. So it's not terrible at all, just frustrating when I think about what I don't have (as opposed to what I do).
I'm not OP but I hope I answered his or her question a bit.
>How many walkers have you killed? >How many people have you killed? Why?
He's trying to get OP to write out the things that make him unlovable. Writing it out makes you realise how crazy and ridiculous you sound when you make claims like "I'm unlovable. I'm the worst person in the world."
>>16871828 Nothing crazy or ridiculous about it. Love is an emotional and hormonal response to physical characteristics, so if you aren't the best looking or stand out at all you may as well be unloveable. I assume we are talking about romantic love though which is different from other love like familial or friendly love.
>>16870928 I realias love isn't the be all end all of life. There are many things better than a relationship. What does it matter if someone sees me accomplish something or not? If I'm only doing it so someone can validate me I'm being an attention whore. I also don't see myself living that long unless I can turn my life around so that helps. If I'm unlovable then fuck the game. I want out.
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