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My ex messaged me asking to be friends again, and I've been hanging out and chatting with her on a daily basis for a month now... It was stupid of me since it was inevitable that I would catch feelings again even though she has a boyfriend. How do I get over her?
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Don't do it OP.

They're your EX for a reason...
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>>16869424
Dude dude dude no. I fucking got dumped a week ago and I fucking know better than you. Dont fucking contact her at all.
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>>16869424
>even though she has a boyfriend
Holy shit dude, you must really love torturing yourself anon :( Don't do that..

>How do I get over her?
You accept that it's over. This process will take time and it will hurt, there's sadly no way around it. Take a week off and lie crying in bed all day and after a month or so you'll be better. That's the way and everybody who had a serious relationship will agree with me. Accept the pain, accept it's over. Simple as that
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>>16869474
And break off contact ofc
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>>16869424
Fuck her right in the pussy and slap a TRUMP 2016 sticker on her car after you block her number
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>>16869427
>>16869445
>>16869474
I know it was a stupid decision, but its too late, she guilt tripped me into it.. Do I just cut contact now or what?
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>>16869486
I'd do that.
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Cut contact ASAP. If she guilt tripped you into it, the bitch is just getting off on the attention. Don't give in.
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>>16869486
yes man
you don't have to be a dick about it either
just tell her that is better for you that you two should cut daily contact
and keep to it
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>>16869486
Here is exactly what I told my ex a week ago if it helps.
"Dont know what you dont get, I have 0 interest in being, "just friends" with you

that being said, she has texted me since then, but I have not answered. It's rough. bro.
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>>16869513
i believe in you
>>16869498
this so much

just the other day my ex texted me
say she miss me
didnt take the bait
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>>16869495
why do girls do that shit where they say they miss you and still care about you and shit? solely for attention??
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>>16869538
yes

98% of what women do is for attention
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>>16869546
>>16869538
that was what happened to me yesterday
see >>16869526
she just wanted attention or pity or something idk but i didn't do it again
fell for it a few times not gonna lie but that was months ago
like 10 or 11
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>>16869538
Sometimes. It depends on the woman, really. Like this OP said; >>16869546
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>>16869559
Idk man sometimes she'll text me saying she still finds me attractive and sometimes she'll ignore me.. It's almost like she's making me feel on purpose
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She see a future break up with her boyfriend is inevitable so she keeping you as a backup
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>>16869424
>I'm a literal cuck please help
either kill yourself or have some self-respect, grow some balls and cut contact.
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>>16869575
Oh yeah, she's being a little shit. I know it's harder to do than say, but I suggest telling her to fuck off and move on.
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>>16869585
Could she be getting back at me for fucking her friend
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>>16869424
Stop being a fucking nigger and break contact
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>>16869616
You're right, I'm being a cuck
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>>16869424
Fuck the boyfriend, go for it, it's your right as a mal
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>>16869424
Stop messaging her. I feel with u. Know that feelings
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>>16869612
lol, see OP you can't leave details like this out... You get the thread to take your side and then you pull "Oh by the way, I cheated on her!" - do you really expect pity after that? Seriously...

Back on topic: Maybe. Women do weird things when they're pissed or feeling a grunge.
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>>16869636
It was after the relationship
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