>>16865492 lol. you need to be proportionate, and even that's just a bonus.
I assume you have a vagina? If you're not a landwhale and are fairly proportionate you can have a boyfriend in a moment's notice. Even if you are a landwhale and built like a refrigerator, you can have a boyfriend, just maybe not the one you want.
>>16865492 you're a girl… just look up the average weight for your weight and go for that. its super easy for girls to get boyfriends. even if you're like a 4 , with good make up you can at least look average. this sounds like bait
>>16865561 Lol someone's either lying to themselves or you but no way a 5'7 chick with tits like that is 115lbs. Muscles and bones have weight. She'd have to be one of those bony skeleton looking freaks to be 115
>>16865563 I think OP is a girl too, i was just poking fun Cant really disagree with you, girls need to be able to breathe basically in order to attract guys Might not be the guys they want but OP didnt specify what kind of bf she/he wanted
there are morbidly obese people who date. the real question is how attractive do you want your bf to be? on top of that, how well are you proportioned? tumblr is right when they say that weight is JUST a number. even at the same heights, the same weight can look different on different girls. some people hold it better.
lose weight until you think you look as good as you want to look. otherwise you'll get to a number and be like 'WHY AM I NOT GETTING BF?'
>>16865577 Well i reckon there will be equal distribution of nice guys, good guys, asshats, jerks, jocks and misc however attractive she is but the more attractive OP is the numbers will prolly just go up cant really think of anything that would make a girl undateable for guys, im really racking my brain around it but i cant find a single thing
>>16865568 >>115 is way too skinny, its like meth addict skinny.
Again, pic related (same woman). Does that look "meth addict skinny" to you?
It all depends on the genetic lottery. If you have low-tier genes, then you will be 5'7 but will tend towards as much as 200 lbs ---and then yes, trying for 115 lbs might be suicidally "too skinny".
If, however, you scored better genetically, then 130 would be borderline overweight for the typical "I wish I had a BF" age-range.
You're skipping my core point, which was: If OP has high standards for selecting a BF, then it can be expected that said high standards will be applied right back.
If OP's standards are relaxed, then likewise. Until we know what OP is shooting for, it's hard to advise, other than the moral equivalent of floating a fairytale of some hot hunk out there who only goes for special snowflake, landwhale-SJW tumblrinas.
>>16865588 i wouldn't even say being super ugly and fat makes a girl undatable because there is always some desperate guy. i have spoke to some girls ugly girls and they have all had a fair few partners.
>>16865625 >dem skinny ass appendages >dem no tits >dem hipbones sticking out >dat no ass
I get why you'd like her. She has a beautiful face and a small skinny body. My kid's mom was 5'7 and 115 when I met her, and she looked ridiculously skinny when naked. It wasn't a turn on.
Look at it this way though: Add a pair of DDs and you add 15-25 pounds Add an ass and you add 10+ pounds Add muscle tone across the entire body, and you add 10+pounds Add a small layer of fat to the entire body and you add 10 pounds. That's 165 pounds. Imagine that girl with that body and she is morbidly obese or a "fatty" by no stretch of the imagination.
I would infinitely prefer the 165 pound version over the 115 pound version and I am by no means a "chubby chaser".
>>16865690 >I must be clueless Fix´t that for you seriously, so many girls dont even notice guys hitting on them its hilarious Open your eyes and you will see guys hitting on you Or better yet, hunt them yourself, find what you like in a guy and find places where those guys exist
>>16865690 you sure you're not just socially inept and extremely timid? often extremely shy girls won't get approached because it makes guys feel uncomfortable. try going on tinder and dating sites, you will should have some luck there.
>>16865705 Dude, ddario is 130lbs and her tits are a 34c. Adding a bigger ass and a bigger pair of tits would easily bump her up to 145 or 150. It's not much of a stretch to push that up even further with a small amount of fat and muscle. Who's blind here?
>>16865711 Could be anything, diffrent guys have diffrent methods some talk, some touch, some look, some suggest If i were you id use tinder as someone else suggested as a girl youre basically running unopposed and last time i checked(yes i checked official stats) guys swipe right 50% of the time also about 60-65% of the tinder user base is male so your odds are extremly good
>>16865717 I don't know who ddario is and a google search yielded guitar strings, so I'll assume it's a woman you perceive to be attractive.
165lbs on a woman of average height is absurd. Even with "perfect" proportions, you're talking a living, breathing caricature of a person. There is no way that would be attractive to a normal human.
the girl posted here >>16865625 is a wonderful example of an attractive woman. She's thin but not anorexic, and she has full features with a pretty face to boot. Furthermore, you probably won't lose her to heart disease before she's 45.
>>16865729 Yeah im also wondering about the hookup thing the above person posted Look, there are litterally an asston of guys out there and some are desperate for a relationship Go broader than your usual searches and you will find new guys
>>16865751 fair enough. it is a lot harder for a girl to find a romantic relationship then just sex. most guys dont care about romance. and the few that do care about romance i feel, dont know when it is appropriate to be romantic. i like romance but i am worried that if i am romantic women will just find it cringy and weird.
>>16865751 >hostels In what context did you find guys wanting to have sex with you in a hostel? im curious
>Broaden my searches to where? And how? Well shit, everywhere Schools, gyms, libraries If you like buff guys then go join a gym and make eye contact with some guy you think you might like and wait for a reaction i mean check everywhere you think guys you might like would attend and wait for em to make contact it aint rocket science, if youre not happy with the traditional waiting then try to talk to them. chances of you being turned down are close to zero unless you are super-duper creepy You seem aware of guys wanting sex more than romance so id warn you to keep an eye out for that aswell Look im not trying to be mean, its just hell look at 9gag and its crew. its tfw no gf all day long over there
OP you got this. If losing weight is what you want, find something you enjoy doing and do it consistently. Running, biking, swimming, any sport, going to the gym, whatever. Judging by the pic your face is fine. Keep at it.
>>16865820 Well you got me stumped, for real Id have to observe you in action in order to specify where you go wrong because men are really not complicated Honest to god, we are not. Im beginning to think you suffer from the same problem as many other women, you go for unavaliable guys and you have made it your comfort zone What do they say when being asked out? do they say no? do they have excuses?
>>16865831 Well the last guy I asked out always talks about how girls don't like him because he's short and blah blah blah, so I thought he would be up for it. So I asked him a hypothetical question about dating me and there was a really awkward pause and he said he wouldn't.
>>16865894 I am litterally stumped right now The only thing i can think of is you going after the wrong type of guy i.e the unavaliable type Cant really test this theory Running out of things to suggest too, only thing left is go wider, nation wide Either that or expand age wise
Are you saying you need to fuck and kiss someone to be attracted to somebody?
I've seen online relationships grow and they aren't as bad as you think. People aren't trying to have internet secks, they voice/video chat online and just talk like friends do, eventually attraction builds up and you feel a connection with someone, you don't need physical contact to fall for someone.
I've seen guys and girls personally fly overseas to meet their squeeze shortly after admitting their feelings for each other, they fucked and enjoy each other's company, and are making plans to get closer together.
But I do respect if that isn't enough for you though, but again; you are building barriers for yourself. Enough barriers and you will never ever have a bf.
Upload a picture so we see how you look. Also try to be more feminine. There was this grill in my class which was with nice body, nice face and overall good looking 7 maybe 8 out of 10. But she was pretty much with a boys' attitude and therefore wasnt getting any male attention.. Also try loosing some weight if you think you are overweight start training a bit and change your eating and sleeping habits. It will change your appearance drastically!
>>16865492 OH MY FUCKITY FUCK OP if you want some normal, long lasting realtionship, just fuck these social standards, use your charm and personality(not talkin bout boobz), im not saying to be unhealthy, stay fit! but fuck these standard| otherwise, if you just wanna (literally) fuck around, then go on
>>16866604 I also play football so I've been eating a lot more lately. Have big thighs and an ass, triple D tits. The struggle isn't too real because I realized I'd rather be a D end than a linebacker anyway
>>16866574 fag here 10 more thig OP before i go to sleep. if you desperately looking for love/partner, it wont happen, ust live your life, an soeday youll find someone worthy. trust me, im speaking from my own experience
>>16865690 >OP here, I'm 23 and I've never been able to get a boyfriend. >I must be hideous.
I'm sure that's not true. First, consult with a doctor to establish what is a healthy weight range for your height and build. We don't know if you are some basically some frail toothpick who is overweight or someone who is already at a good weight. Work out a plan with your doctor. The last thing you want to do is to develop anorexia or bulemia.
Attractiveness is subjective. Some dudes love fatties. Some dudes don't care as much about looks as they do about personality. Some dudes won't look at chubby/fat girls at all. Like I said, subjective.
If you want to lose weight, do it for yourself, not under the delusion that others will like you more because of it.
I find it funny that most posts in here are debates over how a woman with diffrent height and weight will look or be classified As for OPs question its the age old problem women have, its the dating equivalent of just returning home from stocking your fridge but having nothing to eat There are tons of options but you "cant see the forest for the trees"
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