Ok so here goes my rant/question,there's me and two girls ,let's call them girl X and girl Y,I new girl X for a while we were friends and I always knew she was "easy" let's call it,I never really became friends with girl Y but I think it's because I love her,I mean acutull love n shit,I asked girl Y out and she said no (rekt) so I recently decided to go for girl X,as a recovery kinda,things Saturn V level rocketed forward we were doing shit on the first date its takes normal couples weeks to get to (not sex,but pretty close to it) but I still have feeling for girl Y in the back of my head,so my question id,did I Fuck up and what do I do
First of all, you dun fucked up. But you didn't fuck up that bad. You followed your dick, and guess what this will only make your dick happy, temporarily. And then you won't feel happy at all.
From a female's perspective, this was a cowardly thing to do. You will never be truly happy with girl X. So go for girl Y. Make sure they never meet. If things go well with girl Y, you can tell her later on when you two are sharing previous experiences but maybe stay a little hazy on the time frame....
First of all, are you on your phone, retarded, 13 or all the above?
If girl Y doesn't want to date you, that's all there is to it. You also can't really "love" someone you barely fucking know - that's a crush you're building up because you barely know her.
If you like girl X at all, then date her and see if you end up loving her. If you don't like her, then break up with her if you value her feelings, and if you don't, fuck her until you get bored and move on.
Seriously though, you can't force girl Y to date you. You can try working on it until she will, but barring trying to be her friend, and worming your way in - which is low, and probably won't work, especially since being just her friend isn't something you want and you'd end up an orbiter - you can't do anything. She's just not interested probably.
I am actually on my phone,and I may have left out a small piece of info that may be important,girl Y became friends with a girl that is friends with the people I know,and sense she talks to us she in brings girl Y with her when she talks to us
That really doesn't mean anything. If she said no to you before, she probably will stick with that, and trust me when I say the chances of her changing her mind - ESPECIALLY with you in a relationship - are slim to none. Trust me when I say girls very, very, very rarely ever change their mind on dating someone.
Does it happen? Yes. It does - usually when the reasons for denial were it being the wrong time, or her being too busy, or things like that. Can it happen to you? Potentially. But if she said no, she probably means it, at least for a decent span of time (6+ months), and asking her again will probably result in an even harsher, more firm no, especially if the reason she said no was because she "just didn't like you that way" or "she thinks of you as a friend". That's her saying she's not physically attracted to you at BEST, if not "I think you're an asshole/moron/weirdo and I don't want you at all".