What do you do in a marriage or LTR when the love is there but the passion feels gone?
Background: my bf was an immature idiot guy type when we met 5 years later he is sweet and caring but I don't feel like he really loves me how he used to treat me and I don't enjoy having sex anymore. I am trying to get more wet and stuff but the whole sex act just feels so fake I cannot get into it.
He says he loves me all the time and calls me from work and does sweet things but I just don't feel the powerful attraction towards me I got from all the men I slept with in the past.
And it makes me depressed and I feel like a constant failure and I can't get wet.
You do realize this is all in your head, right? I mean, I seriously don't see anything in his behaviour (or you neglected those details) to make me see how you feel or even try and understand you.
So far I just see someone who's out of the honeymoon phase and is blaming it on her boyfriend "not loving her".
Are you sure it isn't you the one who doesn't love him?
>I just dont feel into it
See? It was the other way around. YOU are the one who doesn't love him as much as you did and now you project it onto him, since you don't want to be the bad guy.
Do this poor a guy a favour and break up with him, will ya?