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2016-02-28 23:53:06 Post No. 16859068
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So, I'm 20,have a temporary but steady job, and still a virgin. And there's this girl, let's call her Jane. I've been into her for years, and I've known her since 14, but the timing never seemed right to ask her out officially until last year when she said she just wanted to be friends. Usually that would be it, but she told my best friend that she liked me, so obviously I'm a bit confused here. However, after this, from about October to present day, we've went out at least 10 times on what anyone would call a date (movie, dinner/lunch, shopping, sometimes the arcade where she kicks my ass somehow) but a few days after one of them she just brings up the fact that were not together like that. She says that she's not ready to fall in love again just yet and I'm a little too weird, but she tells my best friend otherwise, so I'd like to know what exactly is going on. We live miles away from each other, and I have work while she's in uni, so we don't get to meet much. Also, it seems like she's afraid to touch or be touched by me because I remind her of someone of her past she won't talk about. What can I do to convince her to be with me? Am I doing something wrong here?