my father is a known philanderer, he cheated on my mother many times before she threw him out (I care little for her anyway)
but now he has a well regarded girlfriend, and I have to stop him dishonoring my family
if he cheats on her it could cost him his job, and nobody will employ me as his son
have a son-father sit down and have the talk.
give him your moral support and remind him frequently what's at stake. also, get real friendly with her.
I'm in a similar situation as your dad: I'm sort of stuck with her because of ties between mutual acquaintances. that pressure prevents me from doing drastic things.
>I have to stop him dishonoring my family
>if he cheats on her it could cost him his job, and nobody will employ me as his son
...are you japanese, and how small is your town?
>giving a shit about what other grown people do
>giving a shit about what other family members say as if they dont have some fucked up shit theyre hiding.
>riding daddys coat tails, for anything
That last one i might be alone on. Some people thats all they have known so theyre afraid of anything else.