I'm going to have my first lesbian experience, this girl is younger, prettier and more experienced than me
How do I give her enough pleasure so that she doesn't look down on me or pity me? I kind of want to make her cum senseless, not because I like her as a person and want to pleasure her but just as a power dynamic thing
I masturbated too roughly as a teenager, and my orgasms faded to being barely pleasurable, masturbation is just something I do to relax before bed
Taking long breaks from masturbation, various drugs and exploration of my body have not helped, so I'm stuck like this I'm afraid.
Sorry to hear this OP.
Maybe your more experienced partner will view this as a challenge. If she does, go with it.
You never know what may happen. She can do things that you can't do to yourself.
as a dude, I'd say:
for a start give her a massage, nibble her ear and lips, kiss her neck, belly and legs, suck her nipples, gently manipulate her camel toe from the outside, eat her pussy and put a couple of fingers inside
most of them seem to cum within five minutes from that treatment, with a little experience.
you might be surprised. if she's really a pro she could potenially make you cum without touching your beaver.
communicate with her and tell her you want to explore. this might give you a fresh perspective on your sexuality. this is also one of the reasons why I would reccomend that everyone should visit an experienced hooker at least once every couple of years.
Touch her everywhere, and make sure she knows how sexy she is.
Try to enjoy yourself at least a little too, no matter how much you fucked up your sex drive - if only one person is receiving pleasure, neither one is actually able to enjoy themselves.
Dude I've slept with pros before, they're so confident that they know how to give me pleasure but they always fail in my case. It's actually kind of satisfying to prove them wrong
I don't have erogenous zones so touching/kissing/licking my body never works, even my nipples are numb.