How do i tell i'm finally over someone? I am sure i have

>>16852251
This happens to me too sometimes. Whenever I start to feel this way, I find her facebook page and read all the stupid shit she posts, then I remember why her being out of my life is so great. I also sometimes go through her images on facebook and masturbate to them.

>>16852266
Well i don't even have to remind myself why having her out of my life is good. Thing is i am in this i'm-out-but-not-really stage, which pisses me off. Thing is i have those ups and downs. The same day i can feel great whenever i'm at uni or in my part-time job, but after that i feel drained and get hit with nostalgia. It's like one part of me is fine and ready to roll, but the other part wants to hold on to it in fear of losing something and not getting anything new.