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>Have a fight with gf because she doesn't want to come with me for a meal with my friends
>She goes in a massive mood slamming doors and shit
>Goes in the bedroom and throws all her draws at the wall
>Go inside and tell her to shut the fuck up
>Hear her slam the front door

What do I do? I love her but I just can't take the falling out all the time.
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Why didn't she want to go?
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>>16851498
She did, she left.
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>>16851498
Oh, I'm a retard. It is because she has a shit load of work to do over the weekend. I totally understand that but she has know about the meal for a long time. I don't want to cancel her seat because it is a real dick move.
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>>16851503
Maybe it's time to have a heart to heart discussion of what's truly bothering you. Take her aside and ask for the real reasons why she's behaving like that. Don't judge her, just listen. Try to make a compromise by asking for something in return for something else. Does this help you?
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>>16851518

Yeah thanks man. It has just been hard, I never post here but I don't know what to do anymore. Every relationship I have, the girl always turns out to be a negative person. I have had issues in the past but I try hard to be a positive person now. Being with someone negative brings me right back down.

Recently she just finds reasons to pick a fight and be cold about shit.

So now she has stormed out and I don't want to chase her like some lost puppy dog.
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>>16851528
If she's looking to fight, maybe the best course of action is to deliberately ignore her. It's a form of seeking attention by pushing your buttons. It depends on the type of girl though, if you're not careful you might end up with an Al Bundy- Peg type situation.
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