Anons; how do I deal with a lose of a person whom I considered my friend?
We had a fight and don't keep in touch, I tried to talk to him a few times but even though he responded, he didn't seem to be interested in being friends again and I have hard time with getting used to that because I miss his presence in my life.
Another question is, how can I stop myself from reaching out? I already hang out with other friends and stay occupied but it doesn't help much.
You find him, beat the shit out of him, spit on his face, and tell him that he's a shit friend and a terrible person. Then, using your steel toed boots, kick in the head until he's unconscious. After that, leave and enjoy your life.
Well too bad. Men do this thing where they form a rigid opinion of someone based on their thoughts and actions.
Unless you mentally backtrack to the fight, realize you goosed it, and are willing to say so, he will keep blanking you. Forever.
well it was because he did something v disappointing and I sent him loads of angry messages. It was not the first time he did it too, and he lied so I was partially right to be upset.
Doesnt seem like a very good friend. Why do you want to keep him close?
>feel the pain
>get used to it
>move on. You will get past this. Because that’s what human beings do!
Seriously, why is that guy so important to you?
I don't know why he's important but he is. Like I really like spending time with him and talking and I can suspect why he did what he did (depression or anxiety) so I feel guilty for attacking him and all.
Idk it's just I very rarely feel this sort of connection with people desu
Seems like you two have some communication issues. Maybe he's just anxious that you'll attack him again? How about you tell him this:
>I really like spending time with him and talking
>I can suspect why he did what he did (depression or anxiety)
>I feel guilty for attacking him and all.
>I very rarely feel this sort of connection with people
Then say it along with something like "huh, that sounded gay"
honestly, what's the worth of a friendship when you can't be honest about your feelings? From what you've written I would conclude that your friendship is done anyway. Tell him how important he is to you (wich is in your situation a lot harder than just saying sorry, i know) and there might be a chance that he'll reconsider.
>You find him, beat the shit out of him, spit on his face
, lean in tell him softly that you love him and kiss him on the lips while stroking his chest sensually.
Wait for response.
Post back here with response before you do anything. Stand there with your phone browsing adv and ignore everything.
I was in your same situation OP. Just man up and fucking CALL your friend on phone, don't send him messages on social networks or whatsapp. Then tell him how you really feel, forgive him for what he did and apologize first for your bad behaviour. By doing this, there are high chance that he'll do the same, but if this doesn't happen be ready to remove your friend from your life, forget him and move on. Like someone else said, you will eventually get past this.
Trust me, you should really prefer a personal contact rather than cold, soulless messages on keyboard. Your friend won't be able at all to tell if you're honest or not, and there are higher chance that he won't trust you completely.
Talking is always the best choice for this kind of thing, do not underestimate the power of human voice.
But it's up to you.
This young lady has already said she doesn't want to say sorry, what makes you think she has any sort of spine or empathy, or deserves this dudes attention?
She should delete his numbers and leave the poor guy alone if all she can do is send haha funny texts.
If she really wants his friend back, she will grow a spine for this specific occasion, and try with this final attempt. Otherwise, she doesn't care about this friendship so much, and you're probably right.
Life is shit, but its nothing. This is literally nothing - a dream -a simulation. You are gonna have to face this demon at some point so just do it now. Everything can be conquered and youl grow stronger after every battle.