I think I have gone off the deep end. I actually considered following a woman I don't know today off the bus. I want to say something to get so bad but nothing makes sense! She has fucking ear phones in all the time too making it impossible start conversation.
I need help. I guess a part of me just wants more opportunity to talk to them. I just hate how unapproachable women are.
Like how do they expect men to ever talk to them if they wear ear phones all the time?!
I think she's probably wearing earphones /because/ she doesn't want anyone to talk to her, bro.
Do not - repeat - DO NOT follow her off the bus just to try and talk to her, there's like a 99.9% chance you'll scare the shit out of her instead of making acquaintances.
Give up on this one, consider putting yourself in more situations where girls are more likely to want to talk to you, like in a social circle or join a club or something.
I just feel like I am never given opportunities to meet women properly and have to resort to doing odd shit like taking a mitten unnoticed abd then giving it back next day saying that I saw her drop it.
I don't want to do shit like this.
Hooooly shit, dude, cool your jets. That really is getting into creeper territory.
Like I said, rethink your entire strategy. Do something extra-curricular for yourself, like a book club or and evening class or something, and talk to girls there like you would any other person.
Don't steal their shit. Don't try to force conversations if they don't want to talk. That kind of stuff spreads as rumour and you'll get a seriously bad rep about the place.
Getting some real rapey autism vibes from this post. Doesn't matter if they have a cock or vagina, fuck off if someone has headphones on because chances are they don't want to talk.
Don't follow her you fucking retard, you'll scare the shit out of her.
If you come home everyday after work/class and stay on 4Chins for the rest of the, night that's not opening your opportunities for shit. Unless you're Adonis-incarnate most women aren't going to start talking to you like it's a 90's romcom.
Join a club, extra class, running club- anything. Make pleasant conversation with girls when appropriate, don't stare, etc.
>how do they expect men to ever talk to them if they wear ear phones all the time?
headphones should be banned. they're such a detriment to society. i've lost far too many friends to headphones
Then ASK your male friends(which you met already through your hobbies) who are doing different, women oriented hobbies to set you up somehow. Parties, going to a bar together, stuff like this. Or broaden your horizon and cut the hobby you like the least and start a new hobby with women involved.
learn sign language. get the girl
Earphones equals to "I don't want to be bugged". Chase another target if you are not in a bus or train. If you wanna approach take a side stance, shoulder-to-shoulder and never clog their walk path. Once you attempt to clog their walkpath, or crossroads it's over for you. Never block their escape path.
You may start with a general non-sexual compliment ("I liked your choice of <something> it looks like a <name> <potential compliment name>") or a pretty generic question if you happen to be in the same office building or bus route
what are you getting educated at?
>working for "that" company?
what be your department?)
Then try to change subject; popular culture, TV series, reality shows, videos then go deeper about your own memories and hers. Try to move your hands like you're feeding a stray cat and do your moves. If you attempt and she ignores you, mirror her body language then start moving your hands again take your ground. If that doesn't budge her, just move along. Not worth wasting your time or bugging her more.
If she's taken and have a strict mind, you can't change it, nor you wanna get to be seen and exposed as a player.
>I liked your choice of <something> it looks like a <name> <potential compliment name>"
boobs; loaf of wonderbread
shirt; reminds me of cubscouts
tattoo; really takes me back; got mine in juvie