My sister and I have been having sex regularly for about 11 years but recently her boyfriend proposed to her and she said yes. She wants to carry on but I want to stop now that she's going to get married. She's getting a little weird now since we haven't been together in about a fortnight and I'm worried she's going to do something stupid and ruin their marriage before it even happens.
What should I do? I don't want to get in the way of anyone's marriage.
>She's getting a little weird now since we haven't been together in about a fortnight and I'm worried she's going to do something stupid and ruin their marriage before it even happens.
Something stupid? Like what?
It's weird that you would worry about getting in the way of their marriage when you've been playing an active role in the destruction of their relationship--you are the other guy. The big difference here is that you can't really just fuck off since you're family. As long as you keep up this activity, and she doesn't just choose you as her life partner, you're always going to get in the way of her happiness. A piece of paper changes nothing, it just makes things more complicated when you try to split.
>whoever made it airbrushed the face to perfection
>didn't bother airbrushing that hand
I've never really thought about it getting in the way. She's had many boyfriends that have come and gone. Now this one has made a commitment to stay with her by proposing and she agreed and I don't feel comfortable doing it anymore because of that.
She was. I don't know why she stayed. I can tell you that I stayed because I was a horny teenager and she was willing to have sex with me.
You should have communicated about this with her. It's not normal to fuck your little bro once a week. She has some underlying problems. Is she crazy otherwise? What's her reasoning to keep this up regardless of marriage?
>Do you love her?
Yes. I love her like a sister and a really close friend. I don't know if I love her like a boyfriend and girlfriend do since I've never had one but I feel like it's more than just a sibling thing.
>How hard will it be for you to keep your distance?
Kinda hard, It's a 10 minute drive from her apartment to mine.
>Now this one has made a commitment to stay with her by proposing
A proposal isn't any more of a commitment than simply staying together for a long time. Many people these days are completely foregoing marriage in favor of long-term relationships. Marriage aside, by your being with her, she will never be able to fully commit to anyone. Sex with one person over an extended period of time creates pair bonding. She will always go to you first in times of need, and vice versa.
>I don't know if I love her like a boyfriend and girlfriend do since I've never had one but I feel like it's more than just a sibling thing.
I would bet that this thing you have going on is a big reason why you haven't had one. Just try to get a girlfriend, and see how she reacts. I bet she won't take it well because she sees you as way more than a brother.