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So to get to the point, saw a few links to Lesbian porn on my girlfriend's phone (Looking over her shoulder while hugging from behind.) So now I am wondering what is going on. A bit of backstroy

>Girlfriend of 2 1/2 years
>Not very sexual (She is a virgin, 31 yers old, saving sex for marriage, that's ok.)
>I work as a security guard and don't see her that much.
>When We started she stated: "I don't see the point in watching porn, why look at something I can't touch?" I go with that.
>Guessing opinions can change over time.

I have not said anything yet, I know things can change over time but I would think she would mention something, It feels weird knowing how she reacts to sexy time things. I want to wait to bring this up with her, but I am starting to wonder if I should prepare for the worse. I also wonder if anyone else has had a problem like this. Thanks for any and all advice.
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she´s 31 and a virgin?? AND you´ve been dating for 2 and half years??
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>>16820467
There's nothing significant to it. If she wanted to be with a woman, she'd left you. She probably loves you as much as she always has, but may have felt uncomfortable with letting you know of her sexual fetishes/interests, or that she masturbates to pornography.
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Any advice on methods to deal with procrastination? I have to work on a CV and cover letters and I physically and mentally can´t get myself to get it done!
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>>16820483

Yeeeah..She is a waiting for marriage type Christian girl... Not gonna be easy at all.
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>>16820493

CV? Try setting a goal for yourself. Tell yourself you can do it.
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cv= curriculum vitae (in the US resume)

I guess it´s nice that you´re respecting your gf´s decision although girls are horny man! I am one, I know. Have you tried out foreplay and stuff? Maybe she´s just trying to get the bugs out but can´t really get turned on with male porn bcs she doesn´t know what being with a man is like..?
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>>16820506
That's fair. It just seems sometimes she would rather do other things than have sex ( As you can see from 2 1/2 no sex) Foreplay has happened but even thing it does not feel like she is up to it. Seems like she is giving a C Performance. Part of me feels like she could at least tell me about this type of thing, I feel I should not have to find out about this, this way.
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>>16820506
Since she's the christian type, it can also be that she feel looking and being aroused by other men makes her uncomfortable.
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I think if you´ve been together for over two years you should be honest with her and ask her outright. Maybe it´s a link a friend gave her for fun, maybe she´s actually is into women but bcs of her religious tendencies she´s afraid of saying something, maybe she likes you as a person but isn´t attracted to you.... so many options. Better ask her outright in a non-confrontational way and get it off your chest.
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>>16820513
>she is giving a C Performance
To her own pleasure? As in she's hiding the pleasure, or it isn't that good for her?
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>>16820537
To mine. In short, what she does to/ for me does not equal up to what I do to/for her.

>>16820522

That is true, there is so much to this. I feel I should look into it more, see what is going on. It was multiple links and I have reason to believe she deletes them from her history so signs point to her hiding it. I might just end up giving this time. Jumping to conclusions won't solve anything. I feel asking her now would just make her hide it more.
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..it´s me again >>16820522 , but step back and think about what you´re doing. It´s already gotten to that weird level where you´re getting a bit paranoid and spying on her. No matter what, you´re reaching the "black zone" and you don´t want to get caught so deep that eventually you´ll ruin everything you´ve been trying so hard to preserve. Imagine how betrayed you´d feel if your gf were spying on you and checking your mobile phone behind your back. This isn´t a healthy way to transition to a long-term relationship.
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>>16820573

I would be more surprised than anything if she started looking through my stuff and spying on me. I do understand what you are saying however. I have thought about that, but knowing her she would most likely shrug it off and never talk about it again, then things go back to standard. I have been trying to think of a way to talk to her about this but right now I got nothing. I am wondering where this will go if anywhere, it could be a phase, could be more. I do at least want to talk to her about this and see what is up.
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As a female, I just wanna say it's actually amazing. Lesbian porn is so much better than the straight stuff. I think your girlfriend might want physical attention and is using that to a seeming as if its wrong. I mean she trying to say that she's not looking at another man in a way that would make u uncomfortable. She just doesn't quite have the guts to go down just quite yet with u. This is how it was for me except I do like masculine features except for dicks so I mean that could be the other reason for her.
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>>16820617
Why is it better?
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>>16820625
Girls tend to actually different towards each other and they tend to show more enjoyment and they're aren't as stuck up
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Girls don't really have orientations like guys do. It's more like a preference to them.
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>>16820682
You mean guys in porn are stuck up or the girls fucking guys?
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>>16820699
Guys just want to hurry up and at their dicks in, girls occasionally stop and giggle and are more gentle. That depends on a who all ur watching but girls just like the feeling of someone being there.
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>>16820515
Yeah, my first 3D porn was straight up Sinn Sage shit. It was more comfortable for me to see other women in action before the dicks come out
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>all of this
Yeah, yeah. Listen, let's just say that she wants something that you can't give her. Unless you have a threesome, I guess, but that's supposedly a whole new problem if it's own. I wouldn't know, personally
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My GF watches lesbian porn, or at least that's what she tells me. She's never been with a woman and when I ask she says she really doesn't want to. She has might make out with one when she's drunk but that's about it. The only reason I can think of her getting off to lesbian porn is because of how vanilla it is compared to watching a guy ram a girl from behind.
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