I found out today that I can't get pregnant. I'm scared to tell my husband because I'm afraid he'll leave me, he really wants kids. Is my life over?
Better fuck anything that walks!
...you'll never know until you tell him. It's bound to come up sooner or later. Cut your losses, or it'll hurt more, probs.
That does mean you guys can raw dog all you like though.
Oh yeah, adoption/surrogacy are options too, like the other guy said.
Is artificial insem a possibility?
If not....yeah lifes not over but this is a shit situation. Better tell him ASAP and begin the hurt. Get it all over with. It's going to be a bad couple months but you'll get over it. Pregnancy methods and DNA splicing technology (may) take a leap soon. Don't lose hope about your life.
If your husband leaves you because he wants kids it's not the worst reason but it still means he doesn't love you for you, you are just a microwave oven as far as his subconscious is concerned. Just saying.
Not necessarily. There are options such as adoption or surrogate mothers. Trying to postpone this discussion will just make it more difficult. There are also numerous options to help with fertilization.
>For the record, if your husband leaves you because you can't have kids, he is a terrible person.
Not really. If a resolution isn't reached, its stupid to expect him to sit and smile with it. Just as I wouldn't expect a woman disinterested in kids to accept adoption, if he's not ok with the idea of adoption over having kids of his own he's not a bad person for saying no either.
>I found out today that I can't get pregnant.
I'm sorry to hear that.
>I'm scared to tell my husband because I'm afraid he'll leave me, he really wants kids.
I'm not going to lie to you: the odds are not zero. However, they're far from 100%.
There's nothing for it but to tell him. The sooner you do, the sooner you can go about figuring out what to do about it.
>Is my life over?
For certain definitions of "your life", yes: nothing can ever quite be as it was. I'm sorry. But that doesn't mean you can't build a new life for yourself. You may even eventually discover that you find the new life preferable to the old, but that will of course take some time.
>he doesn't love you if he leaves you, he's just an asshole!
Yeah he's an asshole because you have different life goals and he thought you two were on the same page. It's not your fault you're infertile and he's not an asshole for wanting kids, that's a major decision.
If the problem is with your uterus the problem is an easy(ish) fix, get a gestational surrogate, then the baby will still be both of yours. If the issue is with your eggs, you may need to get a regular surrogate, who may or may not be related to you. Point is you've got options than allow for you both to remain together and have a child, just gotta look.
Ideology > blood, unless you're really into, "muh chosen people" meme from the jews.
He made an oath with a witness and officiator present that had been recorded in a legal document. If you think it is okay to shirk this, then you must be the type of person who thinks perjury is okay.