>fall for girl as a teenager >meet her now and again, once or twice a year by chance >always have a great time together, talk for hours >always gives me the vibe that she likes me too >nothing ever comes of it >even if we somehow connected or fucked or whatever it would just fall apart because we are so different and the drama/ depression of losing my beloved gf would make me unloveable for at least a couple of months
Soyeah, ill propably have her in the back of my mind until i die.
>fucked other women >focused on school/work >funnel energy into hobbies >slow, steady descent into alcoholism/chronic masturbation
most importantly >redpill'd enough from 4chan to no longer desire romantic relationships >gun-shy from a false rape accusation the thought of having a relationship that's deeper than superficial acquaintances terrifies me
About a year of /r9k/, getting treated like an idiot by a select handful of women, getting out of high school, getting into college, having one of those select women getting into my dad's head, having my dad kick me out of the house for no discernible reason and making plans of enlisting in the military.
Now, I just kinda hate people. The more different we are, the more I tend to hate them.
>Girl #1 I had to promise that I'd never fail in love with her >Girl #2 She made me agree that us kissing would be super weird and ruin or friendship.
I was in both of these women's weddings. The pain got to a point where it killed whatever feelings I might have had. These women are better off without me as their lover. I'm just the smiley guy they see every do often.
She moved away and with her absence i was able to think clearly again.
My biggest fear about it all is she might come back and reel me back in.
like shit man she has my number. she used to sit next to me back in college and talk about all the old times we had together, she had a goddamn twinkle in her eye and the warmest and softest fucking voice i ever heard.
Like goddamn she used to make my fucking face hurt because i wasn't used to smiling that much. I can't explain it man everytime im around her I feel warm and relaxed and shit. She is worse then drugs man I hope she never comes back.
Been there. Had my lifelong girl from HS through college. Upon graduating college in SoCal and going to USAF pilot training I found out she was seeing her acting agent for the previous 2 years. Sucked. Her dad was pissed and told me to just sleep with a lot of women and focus on ME, my goals, dreams and career. He was right. It took YEARS to get over her and honestly, you never really forget. But you do move on. And when you learn to be yourself, be by yourself, and learn to be strong, the right girl who is attracted to the man you become will come along. Until she does, carpe diem.
>>16807069 I don't understand how people get attached to another person so strongly. For me it's literally only sexual attraction, when I cum my brain restarts completely and I have no desire or care to the other person. I am pretty sure I never experienced love
It's the age of me. You're allowed to be selfish. In fact, it's encouraged. Get out of your room. Go do what you want to do. Remember when you wanted to get a motorcycle and she said no? Go fucking do it. Remember all the movies she dragged you through? You don't have to do that anymore.
You get to do whatever the fuck you want. This world is big and beautiful. Go get lost in it.
>>16807069 By getting into relationship with someone else and you will only have time to think of the new girl. I know man, some girls just induce love inside you and you just can't be with them. You might feel, she's the most perfect one for you, but not, because why? First try at anything is a mistake. That's your brain pointing out a wrong partner but instead you should be considering an another girl.
Find another girl to obsess over. Loneliness consumes, it is hard to fight your basic instincts, for years I thought of no girls and it was great until she smiled at me, why God did she smile at me fuck my life.
>>16807069 Got with hotter girl, me and hotter girl broke up and was destroyed by her. Then got back with first girl for a few days then was destroyed by HER but forgot about hotter girl. So you just gotta find another girl to stress about.
1. Delete social media that is of her, get rid of physical photos, store away sentimental things if you don't want to get rid of it. Get rid of everything that reminds you of her. 2. Masturbate 3. Go out and do something 4. Surround yourself with friends, family, whoever makes you happy 5. Masturbate 6. Listen to music 7. Listen to angry music 8. Exercise
>>16807069 Found out she was sleeping around with my church buddies, left church, no contact whatsoever, focused on education in automotive technology, now a service adviser. Glad I never had a relationship with her
Time. Nothing else will make you forget or get over, only temporarily distract you. I know this because I've been heartbroken, destroyed by someone who was once my everything, the love of my life. I never thought I would get over it, but I did. It took time, but I prevailed and so will you. Take this time to improve yourself. Good luck.
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