You grab her forcefully by the neck or hair, and whisper menacingly in her ear. This is usually quite effective, except it's bad form and practised by shitskins. You, anon, should aspire to be a well-mannered gentleman. That means that you cannot MAKE a woman do anything. You can only influence her opinion. It's up to you to determine the dynamic of the interaction, and very often it is up to the male to take the first step, i.e.: ask her out, etc. I say this, because it really doesn't matter how handsome, confident, smart,etc. you really are if you're a passive cunt who doesn't take action.
>>16805968 You don't want your mate to be too much like you. Then you start noticing your own flaws in your partner and you wind up hating her and yourself. It is important to have some things in common though.
You can't 'make' someone like you. All you can do is be yourself, relax, and talk to her. Try to find common interests. Don't push. Treat her like a lady. If it clicks, wonderful. If not, move on.
Stay reasonable. With the exception of a lucky fetish, a 300lb neckbeard isn't getting a date with a playmate lookalike. Keep trying, you'll meet someone. Failures are quickly forgotten, not trying is with you forever.
>>16807403 No I want to make her like me. I want to convince her she likes me. I've figured out where she lives and printed out a map and route. All I need to do is go there and impress her, then she'll have to like me.
>>16807554 Not sure if you're trolling, or really don't get it. I'll risk it and assume the latter.
What can /adv/ possibly say? We no nothing about you, the girl, your history together. Nothing to base anything specific on. There's general advice. Grooming, be fit, smart, better person, etc. But you rejected that. There's really nothing else.
I guess what you want is some magic formula that will make any girl like any guy. Men have been searching for this since the dawn of time, it doesn't exist. Money and/or power go a long way, but even that won't get ~every~ girl. Even James Bond never got Miss Moneypenny into bed.
Trying to force someone to like you is just going to end in problems for you. While you can do things to boost your chances (stuff like being kind, generous, empathetic, reliable, competent, communicative, intelligent), people can usually tell when you're falling all over yourself to impress them.
Trying to force anyone to think anything is problematic, because trying to force stuff with people just makes them want to dig in their heels more. Trying to force someone to like you also means that you're not being genuine. People know this and don't like it, they'll think you're a brown-noser and a suckup.
Be the best version of yourself that you can. Some people will like you and some people won't. If they do, awesome. If they don't, move on.
A girl will not fix you or your life. Having a partner helps, It helps with loneliness and gives you a bigger support system, but a girl will not magically make everything better. Especially later, when the honeymoon phase wears off. Take it from a marriedfag. Any problems you have before the relationship will rears their ugly heads again later. Even the happiest marriage is not a magical fix-all.
Besides, if you work at improving your self and your life, you will have a better time finding love. People don't want to date someone they have to hold up all the time. They want someone they can stand on equal footing with. The best and strongest relationships are composed of healthy, happy, complete individuals working together, not unhappy people trying to use someone else to complete themselves.
>>16807564 How well do you know her? If you've been talking with each other for awhile now as friends, this might work, especially if she's a romantic. If you barely know her this will probably freak her out.
Where do you know her from? You're probably much better off just starting a casual conversation and being yourself.
>>16807668 Because if you've never even talked to this girl then you have no idea who she really is and you're probably hopelessly infatuated with this idol composed entirely of what you -think- she's like.
If you don't know someone, if you haven't seen them at their worst and realized that you still love them just the same, then it's not a real, lasting love.
If you've built her up into this beautiful, glorious, perfect being who can do no wrong, then you will inevitably be disappointed as the real, human version of her fails to live up to your expectations.
>>16807668 >No I want to make her like me. I want to convince her she likes me. >I've figured out where she lives and printed out a map and route. >All I need to do is go there and impress her, then she'll have to like me.
Oh, I missed the part where you don't know where she lives because you asked her, you "found out." So you're a fucking creepo stalker who's doing his darnedest to try and show off how awesome he is, but that's not how love works.
She has to want you on her own. Showering her with money is going to be the closest thing to 'making' her like you, and even that won't work because she won't like you. She'll just like that you're rich.
You're kind of insufferably thick. You're better off staying away from her, since you don't seem to have an actual idea of what love really is other than
>if I show off, she'll have to love me >you guys should tell me what is the best way to show off >You guys are stupid, I can't be any cooler than I already am
Then you don't need to dress up, or do anything. Just be yourself and everyone should love you if you're so amazing.
>and if you're not, you might want to ask yourself why you aren't as awesome as you think
>>16805968 you can't make her like you, but you can try to show her why you are a great guy, just don't try too hard or waste too much time with this one person if she is not showing signs of interest.
>>16809225 Uni grad with own place here. Maybe. If the guys attractive, intelligent, great personality, and really fun to be with (or at least 3/4) I might consider it for awhile. What are you doing to upgrade your situation? I have a hard time imagining a guy meeting the above criteria yet happy with your circumstances.
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