>>16805181 Gos slow. Take your time. Lots of kissing, necking, cuddling before you get graphic. Lots of foreplay thereafter. LOTS of foreplay, followed by more foreplay. Forget your own desires for a while - you'll get yours eventually - and concentrate on giving her pleasure and arousal. Give her a couple of orgasms by hand or mouth before you even begin to think about climbing aboard. Snuggle and cuddle afterward. Don't ever take her interest for granted - go through this process every time.
>>16805217 Sorry hombre, I'm another oldfriend, not a normal fag that actually understands shit. I can see the result but not the method. If I knew how to get lots of pussy from all the horny sluts around me I wouldn't be posting on 4chins on valentine's day alone.
>>16805246 Some women just don't orgasm from sex. Generally they don't orgasm as "reliably" as men do. You can ask her what makes her cum, but regardless sex should still be enjoyable without an orgasm
>>16805228 >a couple of orgasms that's how i know you never gave a girl a REAL orgasm. nobody wants "a couple of orgasms". if we really had one, our genitals get sensitive and touching them again will result in unpleasurable overstimulation. but only if it was the real deal.
>>16805320 then she is a bitch and not even worth your time. and anyway, if it is your first time, i doubt they are going to expect you to be good and i doubt they are going to tell you to stop half way through.
>>16805321 Lol what. I'm a girl and I tend to have 6-7 orgasms a go with my hitachi. I don't really wait very long between them...maybe 80 seconds max? Diminishing returns on orgasm strength is usually what limits my interest in long play sessions. Orgasms cause me less sensitivity then how rough some guys are with their hands/sucking. But that's just me.
We're all different, giving general advice about women is a bad idea...
Ask each girl what they like. If they don't know, have fun experimenting. In the end they'll probably just lie to you and hate having sex with you forever, but it's not your fault.
>>16805320 She is probably embarrassed because she doesn't know what to say or do due to her lack of experience
Try not to put her on the spot with questions like that. Try different things and observe how she physically reacts. It's possible that she just doesn't like sex, but it's more likely that your combined lack of experience is the biggest issue
>>16805320 ask her before the sex. women often dont like talking during sex or they will just say the odd thing, she doesn't want to be having a full blown conversation with you while you are fucking her. she should explains this to you but for whatever reason she isn't. sounds like lack of communication is the problem here from both sides.
>>16805394 not really, no. women generally have sex because they enjoy it. sometimes will have sex with a guy when she is not in the mood to keep him happy though. women can enjoy sex more then men, they can have multiple orgasms. however, some women like your gf struggle to enjoy sex and have one orgasm.
i really dont understand why one would even have a relationship if they dont enjoy sex.
OP, you just have to decide whether this girl is worth it or not. If you want easy sex then find somebody else.
My wife was a virgin when we got married and it probably took three months before she was comfortable. Pretty much follow what the other posters said and forget about your own pleasure. Half hour foot massages followed by a slow full body to relax, then oral. You want it to be as unobtrusive as possible until she comfortable enough to do it easier.
>>16805506 I've never liked a girl as much, but she always sulks in sexual situations. Foreplay doesn't help if she knows it's foreplay. If I tried to give her a foot massage, she would enjoy it all the way until she realised I want something in return and she would immediately get mad that I tricked her into a sexual situation.
>>16805622 its no wonder married couples cheat. if my hypothetical gf or wife was like this, i would be get pissed at her. sex isn't everything but if your partner likes you then they should want to have sex with you.
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