How will you be spending your Valentines Day /adv/?
The brown-haired girl gave me a look, The redhead in the park was reading a book, The girl at the airport upgraded my car, Tonight I wonder, just where you are...
I'll be in my bedroom making furry Lewds(/g/ and /ic/ know what's up). Something to fill the void. I just don't know why I am suck a big joke to people. I come across as a joke, thus rejected, thus loner. Oh well, dignity shot.
I'm off tomorrow and will avoid the outside world... in fear of being "that guy" in his mid 20's walking alone.
>don't know why I'm such a big joke
Possibly the furry lewds you've been making?
I do that, carefully plan my days off around things like valetines day, christmas, my birthday etc so people won't jab me with questions.
Took the week off so no one asks what I did for valentines day.
Funny thing is that no-one knows I draw it. I got big posters I am painting in my room that take up whole walls and still no suspicion... I guess the furry fan base is small(thank goodness).
I might go to the library tomorrow if it's open, just to be out and doing what I want...then window shop. That'll be it. Hopefully seeing couples in my age group won't make me too sad.
Wow, I'll be working on my own furry thing, except it's safe for work and a novel instead of art. I wish furfag dating sites weren't the definition of cancer or I would be more active on them.
I personally don't even react to other furs, I just draw and post to my account. Might start a tumblr. I have bad anxiety in social situations and introverted. Family members tend to tell me I am being an asshole. But it is unintentional.
I will try to go to a convention when one comes this way.
Sleeping in until 3 in the afternoon. Stay in my room and play video games until 5 am.
I honestly don't care that I don't have a valentine. I'm young and have plenty of time to get my love life in order.
Alone with my cat, pondering on Monday classes and countless times I fucked myself over in my relatively short life. Maybe I'll down some vodka to fill the void, get rid of my regrets and prove my daddy right as he once said that his youngest daughter will end up drunk in a field drain.
I'll also miss my friend a lot.
Here's one for you: I'll be getting shitfaced with two of my housemates, one of whom has been single for the past 6 months and who I told I have feelings for just over a month ago and doesn't know how she feels about me. My other housemate is oblivious, as far as I can tell.
The last few weeks have been an emotional rollercoaster for me. I've never been in this convoluted a situation before. I'm kind of numb right now.
Trying to figure out what i should do with my gf.
She said she doesn't love me the way she use to, she says the relationship has dried up. before this all started about 2 weeks ago she went to a club and got drunk with her friends and ended up kissing some guy. She been telling these friends lies about the relationship.
I don't know what to do, we have been together for so long, any advice?
source: personal experience with 2 girls
fastest way to lose interest is to have her tell you how she's got the hots for some other dude
then you'll see if you want to just be her friend
>it'll be harder if you're single/lonely and she gets railed every other week tho
Alone. Ex said we would spend valentines day together. Gave me her new address and everything yesterday said I'm handsome cant wait to see me etc.
Today texts me and says she can't see me shes not ready and shes damaged and shes sorry. Bullshit. She's not sorry. All she ever thinks about is herself and not the people she hurts. Could just say she cant see me in the first place instead of letting me think I wouldnt be alone for once in my miserable life
>How will you be spending your Valentines Day /adv/?
I got angry yesterday when I thought about it.
I'm 26 (almost 27,) I've never had a girlfriend, kissed or even hugged a girl. I don't have any friends at all. I haven't had any friends for years. I hate where I live. All I do is go to work (11 hours a day if you count the drive,) come home from work, sit on the computer for two hours, and try to fall asleep. Weekends are spent sleeping and wasting time on the Internet.
I started going through my shit, throwing out a lot of things. I typed my two weeks notice. I'm leaving my job, throwing the essentials in my car, and moving across the country. I'm moving to Colorado, I know a guy there, I like weed and the outdoors, and there is an IT scene so I should be able to find work. I have 60 thousand dollars in the bank to do this.
I'm going to try to start over in life. I have absolutely nothing going for me. I've never had anything going for me. I've had an absolutely terrible life by most people's standards.
I'm tired of not doing what I want to do.
>I'm tired of not doing what I want to do.
Why wouldn't you have done what you want to do to begin with? Did you buy into the STEM meme and think it'd set you up for life or something?
I actually like my field, it is one of hte few things I still find interesting. I guess I have that one thing going for me.
Where I fucked up was staying here because my family is here. I fucked up by believing all the people in high school who told me I am not good enough to have a relationship, or even friends. I haven't even put forth any effort to talk to people for the last ten years because all I think about is the negative things they told me: I'm retarded, I'm ugly, I'm a loser. Every single day I tell myself that, usually multiple times per day. Recently I've been catching myself saying those things out loud. "You're a total fucking moron," "You can't do a single fucking thing right," "You're one fucking ugly bastard and nothing will change that." That's what I tell myself all day. I started doing that in my teenage years, I did that all the way through college and now I am in my late twenties and I still think that way. I'm tired of it. There's no point living this way.
Mainly drinking because I have slightly above average looks but I suck at flirting and only girls that flirt first are ugly/fat/not of my race/whores.
I'll just bring out the whisky, the fernet and coke, the vodka, so I can drown my problems.
It also kind of sucks that lately I've gotten the courage to ask out my most recent crush but given the time circumstances that isn't an option right now...
Gonna make some nice food. Then I'm gonna bring out my favorite bottle of gin, mix it up with tonic and get shitfaced drunk. All this while watching shifty movies I've seen before.
I'll gladly take recommendations for movies choices!
I will probably jill off literally the entire day, save for the moments I am eating, or drinking... Shit I'll even do it while playing video games, cause fuck it, I don't have any shame or pride anymore, I begged a friend of mine to fuck me, I told him he could do ANYTHING and he said no.
Spent it a day early. Took the girlfriend to a winery, bought her chocolates, ate her out, got my dick sucked and then we fucked.
On the actual 14th? I dunno, probably laundry. Sheets smell like sex.
Here's how I'm going to spend my Valentines:
>Wake up at noon
>Play an mmo for three hours
>Hang out with my nerd friends for the rest of the night and play board games
>Eat a carton of ice cream
>See how much rum I can drink before I pass out
>Right before I pass out I regret my entire life of being a fat late twenties virgin
>Wake up in a pool of my vomit
>Go to work
Have a great valentines day, /adv/.
Yeah, but I'm not sure I'm going to get it on with her, shes 17 and we've been to a cafe and we've watched Insidious once @ my place. I didn't feel like there was a good time to make a move, so I didn't. I told her we've got to watch part 2 and 3, so let's watch part 2 today. I hope she won't read into this. Got to change the sheets because there's a small piece of a grills uterus/hymen/whatever on it and I can't let her discover signs from my earlier adventures :- )
I don't understand why anyone would get super sad on Valentine's Day in particular. If you're that lonely on Feb 14th you're probably just as lonely every other day, so what makes V-Day so special? The fact that other people you don't know are enjoying each others' company? They do that without you every day.
Obviously, it's relative. So many other people (I work in a restaurant) are with it and having their time under mood lighting and buble. they love it. they love each other. st. valentine's day is about love, and many people don't have that many people in their corner. Wretched.
I get to see all my friends spend time with their wives and girlfriends in a more-than-usual manner. I get to drink myself into a coma seeing all that shit on Facebook/Twitter/Instagram.
I'm happy for them all the fucking time, douchebag. I was at/in their weddings. I want to be happy too but no I'm too fucked up for that. Therefor, my valentines date is a bottle of johnny walker. Fuck you.
I have no friends and have never been intimate with anyone, ever. I haven't even flirted with anyone in a decade.
This loneliness hurts, but I deserve it for being a shallow and boring person.
Hey man fuck you. Yeah its great being happy for your friends but after awhile seeing them happy all the god damned time and them talking about it and always fucking asking you why you don't have anyone... it gets to you. When you look at your own life and its shit compared to their perfect happy fucking life. Fuck my life and fuck me. I can't wait to kill myself a little faster with a fuckton of booze and shitty chocolate. Also, fuck you again you cocksucker.
Are you me? Thats pretty fucking close except I don't have friends to play bored games with, and I'm not that fat. I'll skip on the ice-cream, but the rest is pretty fucking accurate.
Friends are easy to get as long as you keep up the facade of being happy and normal. Then again I'm a borderline sociopath so its probably not as difficult for me to fake it.
I hope you enjoy your day, anon.
I have a girlfriend but we don't celebrate it. Why?
Because valentines day is the most shallow and lame holiday out there. I like doing romantic things but they have to be spontaneous, and not forced. It almost feels like being shamed into buying overpriced goods, it's rediculous.
Getting dressed up in a busty dress with new 5" heels and going out for sushi, then hopefully sex will happen. Got new lingerie for the occasion, too.
After that, I don't know, might work on my RPG Maker game?
Do you definitely know she doesn't like you. I was in the same boat until 2 days ago, when she wasn't telling something, so I pressed her and she told me she is falling on love with me. Now I'm in way over my head because she's married
My boyfriend and I never really celebrate it. I'm not really romancey. His birthday is next week, so I usually save up for that instead of wasting money on Valentines.
We still go on a date or something, but we do that every weekend. Today, we're going to see Deadpool and go to a really sich burger joint.
You gotta remember she's dealing with shit just like you. But that is super shirty to drop you at the last moment. Get her to but you dinner later to make it up to you. That way you get a free meal and you both get to spend time together on a day not involving the extreme amount if chocolate being sold.
No anon it's not like that, she's travelled like this before and she never slept with any of them (no seriously)
It just so happens that this time she isn't saying anything is all
and it's Valentine's
And it's America, the land of social pressure
I'm sure she's just busy walking around
At least I'll only have to deal with that grief once I hear what happened and then I won't have another reason to keep texting with her finally
>free me from this life
How can you forget it's Valentine's when the entire world is doing it's best to make you feel like shit for being single?
It's the worst shit possible, and holidays are right up there behind it
>society doesn't give a fuck if it makes you feel worthless and outright hates you for not conforming
>so give me a choice ffs
I hate to say this but you might be right by now
even though you're a shit tripfag
but she hasn't replied since...yesterday
it was bound to happen at some point
>there goes my week
Fought with my partner, he was really in the mood to make me feel bad about some fight we had long ago. Drinking alone now, pretty sure he's breaking up soon, he doesn't know I bought him a brand new laptop.
Just tired, wish I had someone to talk.
The day's almost over and it was on a Sunday. So it's come and gone quietly.
Still, wish I didn't have to go to work tomorrow, no doubt the resident jokers gonna be asking me about it tomorrow.
Sounds like he's fucking retarded, baby.
an intercity disco