>same 3 best friends for 5 years
>same girlfriend for 3 years
>knows my 3 friends very well
>found out she cheated on me twice on a trip to visit family
>break up with her two weeks ago because of it
>friends stop responding last week
>wake up from nap today
>snapchat from one friend
>two of those friends fucking her at once while he records with caption "lmao"
I'm spiraling down. what do I do? how do I cope? I can't stop thinking about it and I can't stop sobbing. I loved her so much. I was already so hurt by the cheating and then them ditching me. but now it's just been amplified times a thousand.
Kill them alone. If you can't get a gun just use a kitchen knife, if you need advice on how to do it consult this video.
God speed anon.
ow wow, i'm very sorry anon :(
you should just ignore them clearly they aren't very good friends and have never been
i know it's hard but you have to just move on, you're way better than them!
i know it hurts but sometimes shit have to hurt to get better, you know now those people are worthy of shit and you should now try to move on and build a better life for yourself.
it will be hard but i know you can do it!
I've offered the best advice in this whole thread.
If he doesn't want to do that he could always realise that these illusions that hurt him so only hurt him because he's been conditioned to believe right and wrong, a human concept but why should he care about human concepts when he is the very structure and fabric of existence itself, existence being total untapped joy, and no decision he makes can ever be wrong when made in confidence.
Thank you all for the replies. I'm still here. I honestly can't argue with any of these. I'm completely different then my friends. Straight edge, make a decent living, ect. But I always just kept them around. I guess that is kind of my own fault.
With the chick though we never had any problems at all. we rarely argued about anything and it's never been over anything major, we had a pretty good life together, talked about a future together, and had a good sex life to top it off. This came completely out of nowhere because we always treated each other relatively good
That doesn't matter. Cheaters will try and justify cheating by saying shit like I felt unloved.
She was a whore, that's why she cheated. OP needs to move on and remember >>16801192
Routine: Get up 10am, usual hygiene stuff, eat, work from home so lots of time to see the girl (she didn't go to school or doesn't work) whenever I get done I would usually go out with those old friends and see local music acts or do somthing with the girl. Nothing too exciting.
How social: I don't really have an issue being social if placed into a situation or if someone talks to me first. But I'm always worried if I have to talk to someone I don't know
Attractive: I feel like I'm a 7/10 I really don't think I'm bad looking and I wouldn't change anything about myself. But I'm not sure how other people view me. Back in high school I had a couple girlfriends and it wasn't too hard to get this last one.
My interests: music stuff mostly. Guitar and local shows are my main free time activities
okay your routine will now be changed, remember your gf and friends shouldn't play any role in your life anymore, because they suck!
so instead of doing what you normally would, you should try to get a hobby that requires you to be out, since you're social skills probably are okay you just have to be thrown out in the situation, as in a gym for example,
it's good you have a interest as music, because you can go to concerts and shows where you can meet people
maybe you should try going to a club or something where you will put yourself out, or use a dating site, to create a new network so you can get to know people
can you play yourself?
do you have the option of playing yourself somewhere, because that will most likely create social situations.
i don't know how boys meet boys but i assume it's similar to when girls meet girls so i would do something like going to a club to throw yourself in a social situation where people will be like "why haven't we met and talked before?!"
if you don't mind you can post a picture so i have an idea of how you look, because well more attractive males have better luck in getting social contact without seeming as a creep
You know what I may go try that club idea. I feel like I would do fine in one. And if that doesn't work I may as well try the gym because I can walk to one and it would probably help even more if I was toned up a little bit. Don't feel comfortable posting pic of me on this shithole but I do have confidence in how I look. Sadly it's 4:30 in the Morning and I need to get up and run some errands tomorrow. I still feel sad but I kinda have a plan for making new friends and maybe a new gf when I get over this bitch. So I'm feeling a little thing of positivity. Thank you anon for taking the time out of your day or night to talk to me.