How do I learn to enjoy my own company?
Because I really don't. I get lonely and depressed.
I'm going to a video game tourney alone tomorrow to see if I can be a strong independent womxyian who donneedno man. Hope I don't get too lonely. Oh jeez.
I find it's really helpful to do something creative and/or productive. For the most part it sucks to do "fun" things alone, but I find I can pass the time pretty enjoyably if I've got a task I can focus on, where I can put thought and effort into doing it well, and feel some kind of satisfaction if it turns out well.
I write, I make music, I don't really want a career in any of these things or think I'm great at it, but I like doing it. Cooking is good too. Exercise. Stuff like that.
some (most) people seem to have a really hard time, and i dont get it. i feel like realizing you an enjoy alone itme is the key lesson you learn during highschool and transitioning into adult hood.
for noobs i recommend a creative outlet.
kinda like what this person suggests. but make sure you have endgames.
for instance going home nad drawing is not enough. its just a random doodle on the paper. you have no reason to finish it. none at all.
so instead, draw a comic. plan out a whole issue, or six issues, then come home every day and draw it, be all happy with how it turns out.
so instead of watching movies, make one. instead of reading books, write one. instead of sitting in a chair, build one.
no need to be perfect. if one stops being fulfilling move on to the next.
also exercise and healthy diet help a lot
because alone is something you will be often. so why not enjoy it?
>wondering that she's lonely
That's one of the main reasons people look for a so to avoid loneliness. The is no magic cure. If there was people would be doing that instead of relationships.
This is dumb advice. You don't get in a relationship just to avoid loneliness, you get in a relationship because you actually want to spend lots of time with that person. A bad relationship just adds stress, and doesn't really do much to help the loneliness if you're with someone who doesn't understand you or care about you
>strong independent womxyian who donneedno man.
But you don't need no man.
You just need someone or something to keep you company.
Parrot, you could call him "shimbles" and teach him to talk like a pirate.
FALCON. Because who doesn't want a pet bird that can rip your enemies eyes out?
A teddy bear that you talk to and make other people look at you like you're crazy.
I find the key to enjoying my own company, is to make myself laugh... I often get crazy looks, but who the fuck cares, I'm happy.
I mean shit, I've been that "creepy" guy all my life, learned all attention is bad attention and that I'll never win with other people. So I win with myself and make myself happy. I prefer lonliness. Who gives a fuck if someone doesn't get my jokes, I get it and I laugh.
I had a giggle writing those ideas down, and I had a giggle earlier staring at someone while thinkin' about fucking their sister to see if they would react (then I'd know they could read my mind and I'd then have to come up with a plan to prove it to others).
My point is, be silly, even to yourself. Treat every thought like an inside joke that only you would get. That is the key to happiness alone.