Hey /adv/, i noticed a pattern in my personality. When i'm in a shit situation or there is some risk involved, i behave in an ideale manner
meaning, i become perceptive, persuasive, charismatic and full of energy
As soon things get quiet, i start becoming more shy and letargic
The point is, how the hell can i control this thing? how do i avoid slowly going back to beta when things go well?
I can't really give precise examples because i really feel like my base personality is the one coming out when i'm motivated, and the way i am normally is some kind of bind that happend at some point in my life
in fact now that i think about it, i kind of remind being extremely outgoing when i was very young
So in short, there is a way to identify and undo traumas, behavior conditioning and shit like that?
Stress is your body using adrenaline to pump you up and prepare you for conflict. It heightens all your senses and cognition.
We have been told a lot stress is bad so people panick when theyre stressed out and perform worse. Stress is actually good and normal.
All i see is that you handle it exceptionally well compared to others. You benefit from the stimulant cocktail your body serves up.
Either accept your personality and stop panicking by recognizing everyone has strengths and weaknesses and youll be loved and hated the same as anyone regardless of any self improvement attempt, or train your relaxed social abilities through practice.
Also try drinking strong coffee or redbull before going into a chill social situation. I base that on nothing but a hunch... But.. For some reason i think itll work..
Yeah, i drank redbull on a whim time ago before a stressful situation and the result was crazy. I drink it regularly after that
it actually seems that the more i'm stressed the more i performe well
Well as one who was formally (though it wasnt my major) educated in psychology, and kept a keen interest and kept learning for years on my own i think we have cracked it.
I invite any actual qualified person to correct me, but i think thats just it.
You perform very well with stimulants. If you had add id recommend you ask your dr for concerta. Youd be on point all the time.
Anyway... Be wary of the health affects of caffeine and red bull, realise you can train be fine without it, yadi yada and good luck to you sir.