>recently ended long term relationship >life is good besides

>>16799537
well, why did you end the relationship?

why do you feel lonely? you opted to end the relationship. what did you think you were doing?

take some time to better yourself. read some books, hit the gym, rekindle with friends, go out and be social. figure out what you want. a relationship? something casual? nothing?

>>16799545
We did not work together. He couldn't work on himself when he was with me. At the same time he didn't want to accept this and even if he would realize it he wouldn't end it because of how loyal I was to him. We have been together since I was a freshman in highschool.
He barely matured while I have a good grasp on everything I am doing or what I want to do/achieve.

I am lonely because I loved him and I tried really hard to make it work but it just wasn't enough. And I am alone. I open up really hard to people so most of the times I am someone's close friend but they aren't mine.

And what I want totally depends on the person.

>>16799537

If you are lonely you should go meet people and socialize. What else do you expect us to say? In three months you'll barely feel any sadness over the end of the relationship. Give it time.