Ive been doing no fap 2016 and Im worried about the side effects.
I can now get an erection whenever I want and the erections feel harder, but the girth has decreased by about a quarter of an inch. The length has decreased by about half.
Im really worried no fap is shrinking my dick. My dick is larger than average and Im happy with it, but I definitely dont want to lose size.
Ive been telling myself that its just because my dick is only at 90% erection since Im not masturbating it to get it to 100%. But I feel like thats just me lying to myself.
Am I unreasonably worried.
It is natural for a penis to become enlarged and for more blood to go trough it after foreplay with a women - there are lots of chemical and psychological factors involved.
During sex your penis will enlarge at maximum size - it always happens - unless there is a disease.
Because you're on your no-fap journey your brain is rewiring to best it knows - natural state.
WHy would you expect your penis to receive more blood than it needs or to expand to all its potential size if you don't really have a reason to - there is no excitation outside what you mentally force.
No-fap is a great thing to do - my advice keep no-fap for life.
Do you think saints, prophets masturbated? Of course not, masturbation draws away gifts from God, from orthodox tradition - what was kept I tell you this: Noah had sex with his wife only once / year.
Yet almost all people are just fine masturbating and having a healthy sex life while living a successful fulfilling life. Somehow people who don't have a healthy sex life for one reason or another are bitter social reculses who think the world is wrong and evil, hostile to everyone not sharing their beliefs.
this is true. it applies to a lot of things really. people who exclude something from their own lives often label other people dont exclude it as evil. vegans are an example. I'm pretty sure there is a theory about it but i can't remember what it is called.
Not him but after a certain amount of time without fapping you start feeling more alert and motivated. Ejaculating is a release of energy, almost a depressant. No fap is good if you need to pull yourself out of a bad situation but can't muster the energy or courage to do so.
i get that. if you dont gap, you lose your sexual urge and you concentrate on more important things then sex. i think once a day or once every few days is enough though. once i have had a wank i lose my sexual urge and i can get on with what i was doing. i wank once a day and i am the most productive person i know.