i finally got to adress this. Im 20 years old and i never had anything with a girl, except some drunk making out. I really dont know what is up with that. Im pretty popular, often at parties etc. Very nice girls have told me i look real good. But i dont participate in their stupid smalltalk. Why should i talk about basically nothing. At a party, i stick to talking about things that intrest me, if they come up. If they dont, i just chill. Is that the fucking problem for real ?
If you just want a lay then humour their smalltalk, make physical contact (ie arm around them, touching on the shoulder, nudging them, playing with their hands). If you're as attractive as you say and they don't resist/become uncomfortable with the physical contact then you can escalate it from there.
If you want something just go out there and get it
just jack off and move on with your life. I am a 22 year old kissless virgin and I couldn't care less. I mean I would be lying if I said I don't want some pussy from time to time but who the fuck cares, it's not like you will experience something groundbreakingly new, there is no hymen to be broken on your dick you get me
pussy is just short term happiness better find out what you will be doing for the rest of your life then how to stick your penis in a vagina
if you really "need" a pussy then go out and get a hooker and get dissapointed afterwards