Let him think he got you pregnant and have the baby with him thinking he's the father. Have him raise the child and put him through college. Make him get a good job and become a house wife. Go on vacations during the summer. Have wonderful Thanksgivings and Christmas'. THEN BAIT MORE.
>>16792589 >And the child will have a father if my bf doesnt find out Kek and a disloyal, distrustful slut for a mother. Great role model huh. Your bf deserves to know so he can get rid of you out of his life.
>>16793075 Golly gosh is that not how relationships work. Running a relationship based upon lies and deceit is not exactly healthy for the relationship, nor is it right for your boyfriend.
If you want to be polyamorous, or have an open relationship, find someone who actually agrees with it. Ignoring his wishes and lying to his face shows that you don't really have any respect for him as an individual.
>>16793108 little white lies can benefit the relationship sometimes but this is different. cheating and even worse, making a man believe you're carrying his child and trapping him in to supporting you and the bastard is unforgivable. if he respects himself he will never forgive you for such a dishonor you have done to him. literally kill yourself
do you have a female family member you can confide in? this bf may not be the guy who will be with you years from now. but buckle up kiddo, welcome to only/single parenthood. it's lonesome and you'll never have time to yourself again. know how you can go outside to do things? yeah, that's gone.
i know you don't believe in abortion, but consider that fetus would want you to take care of yourself first and foremost. you're asking for post partum depression and an unhealthy first couple years if you carry this child to term. and you might even resent them for ruining your current relationship with...whoever you hooked up with.
sweetheart, trust me. i've been there. it hurts, you'll never let go of the sacrifice you make. but life is hard, and sometimes you need to make hard decisions. weigh your options and make the choice that helps you before a fetus.
Not trying to be a cunt but seriously. . The only reason someone would ask this ob 4chin is to b8 newfags and moralfags. I get it .. this is triggering me aswell but fuck this faggot OP seriously shit b8 but triggering this many fags >top kek OP
>>16792559 Just tell him you're pregnant, and tell him you want marriage. If he has a good job he will still support you and your child.
Also, don't blame yourself, it's not your fault. These things happen, but the first thing's first: your child. Once you get your bf's name on the birth certificate you're golden. Even if he finds out later he still has to pay the child support. Depending on how much he makes ... you could just never tell him. It's what's best for your child, honestly. Your bf probably is cheating on you, anyhow, so don't feel bad.
>>16793204 trust me, i know exactly how you feel. i'm an only parent, the dad was a cheater and mentally abusive. i regret not terminating because she's fatherless, but i wouldn't rewrite it now that i'm here. but i seriously don't recommend it unless you're self sufficient.
>>16793224 Absolutely this. Check state law for paternity - he may be able to contest for the first two years. After that, all the DNA evidence in the world isn't going to get him out of those sweet monthly checks for the next 18 years!
Kill yourself after it's born and leave clues for the kid to find when it's older that leads it to believe your bf killed you, while also revealing he wasn't its father. Give its bastard ass life some purpose.
It's amazing how many women come here asking a board of mostly males how to lie to/cheat on a guy in a relationship. I guess it makes sense though. 4chan is all about fucking over men. That's why there's /r9k/
That's why she shouldn't tell him. Do you know how bad that is going to be for the child? It is best if her bf never finds out. It really isn't that big of a deal. There is more to being a father than biology.
>>16793462 It happens way more than you think. No one wants your ugly maladjusted genes. Women get horny at peak fertility, bang Chad, and leave you to raise him. That's the way it has gone for thousands of years. It's a good thing really. Betas breed more betas. They should just be glad they get the company of a woman.
>>16792559 He will find out. I did, 4 months after the kid was born. I divorced her, she tried to claim I was a father figure, then tried to claim i had a cuckholdry fetish and made her cheat to get out of the marriage clean. Her friend tried to corroberate her story, but her other friends exposed them both as conspirators. It ended with her getting nothing from me in the divorce and now I am with her friend who testified against her, and we're quite happy.
Anyway when you cheat, they always find out. You may think you left no evidence but you always carry that evidence, nurse that evidence.
>>16792589 Wow, prime example of how fucking stupid women could be. You know, you are also lying to the child too about his father. It's sad that you are too much of a pussy to man up to these situations and be responsible. You don't even deserve this guy, just straight up break up and kill yourself.
>>16794325 >>16794305 >>16794262 >>16794292 Why are you guys so bitter? Or is it just the le kill yourself meme? If this was a guy in a similar situation you'd be brofisting him for cheating on that 'whore'
>>16794333 That's bullshit. Any guy or girl who cheats on there partner and conceives a child with the person they cheated with is not a good person. Stop trying to use double standards in a situation where they clearly don't apply
>>16792559 You're just about the worst person ever, just gonna say that up front. I don't know what made you want to start cheating on your boyfriend, exactly, but either way just tell him you're pregnant with someone else's baby. If he doesn't leave you, then you should leave him. You're obviously not a good partner for him if you're cheating on him, and making him raise a child that is the result of you cheating on him is just about the shittiest thing you can do to someone.
femanon here, my sister tried to do the same thing and ended up getting the shit beat out of her, ended up losing custody of the child, and has nobody because she lost her boyfriend (i don't blame him) and also her baby daddy when he found out she still had a boyfriend.
if you try to pull the same, i can guarantee that nothing good comes out of it. you are not going to win the best of both worlds, so stop trying. either go have an abortion and spare that child the misery of the life you'll give it, or take responsibility and put up with the consequences of telling both guys. if you can't do the latter, then you don't need to have the child, period, because it's not like you're going to be able to give that child a good life financially.
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