>Girl A: uni dropout, NEET, severely mentally ill, doesn't take care of her body, gets hospitalised at times, only things she does is watch anime and go to therapy
>Girl B: university student, takes care of appearance, works out, decent social life, various interests, has her share of problems but knows how to deal with them
This might sound like a weird question, but which girl sounds more interesting? Which one would you rather get to know?
B is better.
Why would you want someone who drags you down in your life? Eventually when the sex slows down, she'll be nothing more than an ankle weight.
Girl B has ambition and is independent, so a partnership with her would challenge you to be better and improve.
Girl A would be an ok hookup buddy, but never get in to a relationship with weak girls like that. They're actually the ones more likely to make impulsive decisions like cheating or threatening suicide when you want to leave
I'm girl A aspiring to be girl B once more, but for some reason I'm convinced no one will like me or care about me if I get better. I know I'm retarded and that everyone prefers strong, confident girls over crazy bitches, but I can't get this out of my head, so I'm trying to at least challenge my thoughts with this thread.
I actually like skitty crazy women, im a live wire myself.
As long as she doesn't get violent and argues shouting over petty things I would prefer A.
My last gf was a mix of both, she hot self righteous with me because I didn't work (but got my own cash) and she had a part time check out job.
>for some reason I'm convinced no one will like me or care about me if I get better
OP, no one will care for you if you don't care for yourself first. It doesn't matter if you watch anime or you work out.
You need to start loving you the way you are firstly, and secondly you need to take small bites. Don't try to take all that pressure for immediate change. Slowly start uni (the fastest you graduate, the better) then move on to your other goals.
We believe in you OP. You can do it.