Do they exist really?
or is it just more of a difference between a confident man who believes in himself Vs an insecure faggot?
Seems more like confident man vs Insecure faggot again.
You could be alpha and a nerd into computers and all sort of other shit if you truly were confident in what you do and believed in yourself and have the ability to lead and inspire when needed to.
Masculinity though could be linked to high testosterones. Working out and taking care of yourself is the key.