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I feel like I intimidate some people when I talk to them.
>scratch face
>rub eyes
>move around in chairs if sitting
I don't want to make people uncomfortable, how can I change this?
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You know, its not always your fault if someone gets uncomfortable when they are with you.

I always deemed myself 'awkward' and thought that I made everyone uncomfortable, and its taken me to realize that ALOT of people out there, even those who by appearance and social status we wouldnt ever consider, are in fact very socially awkward themselves and easily lose their cool.


Just focus on being comfortable for YOURSELF, not for others. If you carry yourself with a presence of self-comfort, others will naturally find themselves comforted by your presence. Its why we find ourselves drawn to certain people.
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>>16787117
In the end, your probably imagining most of it, most people simply don't give a shit.
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>>16787128
I agree with you, however, when I'm trying to get something from them, I don't want them to feel as though something is wrong.
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