>get drunk friday night by myself chilling on my balcony
>end up making conversation with neighbor ive never talked to before
>end up inviting her inside for drinks then fucking her
>shes excited about the encounter and texts herself from my phone that she wants to do it again0000
>talk to her today and it turns out she has 3 kids and is married
>i've seen her husband at the community fitness center and even had a few words with him
>feeling really shitty about it and dont know what to do
so if it wasn't me she would have just fucked the next guy who came along right?
Did you know she was married before hand?
If not, it is not your fault at all. She is the one with the commitment, and it was her responsibility to remove herself from a situation that she knew was likely to escalate.
I understand if you feel bad for the husband/kids because the mom's a fucking slut, but don't feel bad for sleeping with her. Are you going to tell the husband? I don't think he'd be angry if you apologized for not knowing and then came right out and gave him a heads up.
I mean he'll be pissed at his wife but if you're trying to help him out he won't be upset at you
>so if it wasn't me she would have just fucked the next guy who came along right?
Maybe, but that doesn't make it okay to keep at it. If you really didn't know she was married with 3 kids (which is really fucking weird since she's your goddamn neighbor), forgive yourself for what happened and don't let it happen again.
Tell her you didn't know, and you don't want to be in that situation.
You're single, you have no responsibility. She's the one cheating and you may as well be the one to get lucky. Even if you know, it's not even a moral question as you never stood in front of God and told him and your partner you were going to be loyal.
I've slept with a married woman before. She told me beforehand and asked if it was a problem for me. I said I don't care it's her business, and of course encouraged her by saying everybody DESERVES some fun to which she of course agreed.
Just enjoy it while it lasts.
had no idea she was married, i just moved in to the building 3 weeks ago and this was the first time i saw her. i don't think i have the balls to tell some random guy that i fucked his wife.
btw i'm 24 and she said she's 26
Don't under any circumstance tell the guy. You have nothing to gain from it. Betas don't take this well because it conflicts with the idea that their wife isn't a whore.
Remember he's the one who married up a slut, it's 100% his problem.
The guy's gonna find out when he sees op's number in her phone
Do NOT fuck her again.
Right now you are not at fault. If you know long fuck her again, you WILL BE PARTIALLY AT FAULT.
Just enjoy the memory and move on with your life. Neighbors get murdered over shit like this. The anxiety and guilt is not worth the short pleasure. Just go jerk off
no like I said it's not my problem. It's not morally irresponsible because if you're single, all women in the world are free game. If some guy goes for an LTR with a woman they put limitations on their own and each others promiscuity, or that's what was supposed to happen. This guy put his money on the wrong whore and it is entirely his problem. And her problem because she will have to deal with the moral aspect of it (not that she'll care), you don't. Would it not be totally unfair if you had to limit your sexual options just because other men are in relationships? Makes no sense right?
Don't kiss and tell, and enjoy the ride.
>already have 3 kids
I was just thinking that she probably was one of those negletced old woman, but its clearly that she doesn't give a fuck about anything, no woman with good sense pop 3 kids before 30's.