I have a friend who is a big girl who is single and looking. The problem is she refuses to date black men. Is she racist? They flirt with her but she brushes them off and rejects them.
She doesn't come off as racist when I talk with her, but if she is I would like to know... Is refusing to date black guys a sign of racism?
Allright listen up nignog, she is letting you down easy.
Seriously, pack your bags and get on the boat back to afganistan since the bitch doesnt want to date you.
Accept that you are friendzoned and stop pulling the race card.
"once you go black, we don't want you back"
but seriously, did she tell you "I don't date black guys?"
if not, they you can't know if she's racist or not
and even if does say she doesn't want to date black guys, it could be that she doesn't find their appearance attractive, which is something we can't control
>is it racist to have a basic personal standard of sexual attraction
Don't you have a new piercing to get or a new color of hair dye to try you tumblr fucktard?
Actually, you're being racist yourself by implying that black people inherently want fat girls
I am white.
There are a lot of successful black men in the world.
Well I tried to set her up with a friend of mine, when she asked if he was black I said yes and she said " oh never mind".
Because racism is wrong, there are a lot of reasons to not date someone, skin color shouldn't be one of them
>I don't date black guys because they beat their girlfriends
>I don't date black guys because they get you pregnant and then disappear
>I don't date black guys because I don't happen to find black guys sexually attractive
>Because racism is wrong, there are a lot of reasons to not date someone, skin color shouldn't be one of them
Everyone has sexual preferences. If she doesn't want to date black men you have to fucking accept that. It's not wrong.
Is it racist to not want to date someone due to their race? Technically, yes, but I think people get too bent out of shape over the label "racism". At the end of the day you should be able to reject someone for any reason you want, and if she's not attracted to other races, she can't help that. If this is the only racist behavior she has then I think you'd be overreacting to treat her badly for it.. but at the end of the day just as she can reject someone for any reason, you can end a friendship for any reason. I don't think not dating certain races is that big a deal if it's the only racist behavior.
prejudgment of a person's desirability as a mate based on race, without properly examining their suitability as an individual is racist, yes. If she's solely saying she's not attracted to darker skin that might be a possible non-racist rejection (although that might indicate internalized racist attitudes), but if she's rejecting men she otherwise finds attractive because they're black, that confirms her to be racist. Given the wide range of attractiveness in all races, it becomes hard to believe her.
People are individuals, not part of a monolithic group. Anything else is bigotry of one form or another.
>There are a lot of successful black men in the world.
Yeah, but significantly fewer than successful white men, despite the fact that a very large fraction of the total inhabitants of this planet are black.