I'm a freshman in college, second semester here. I'm 18 years old.
Since senior year, I've had a crush on a girl that was two grades lower than I am. She's a cute, pure, Christian girl. She's turning 17 soon.
I never tried to really get into anything with her because everyone sad "dude when you get into college, the girls are everywhere" Well they're all whores. I've learned a lot about these people and I want nothing to do with them.
So I really need advice on whether or not I should pursue this girl? I'm debating maybe asking her to dinner or out for coffee but I want to wait until she's 18 before a relationship.
Is this weird, or should I keep up with it? What should I do?
a) Well they're all whores. I've learned a lot about these people and I want nothing to do with them.
Disregard this mentality now. It will not help you now, nor will it in the long term both with normal and sexual relationships.
Girls are just girls.
Christian girls APPEAR to be pure, but most of them have the same sexual drive as girls. I wouldn't be suprised if shes had sex a couple of times already.
Takehome message is, if you want a specific girl, stop waiting to ask her out, and just ask her out ASAP. She may or may not reject you, but there is always other girls in that case.
>Well they're all whores. I've learned a lot about these people and I want nothing to do with them.
Get your head out of your overly-judgmental ass. You haven't learned a single goddamn thing about people that you've never met. Your pure little Christian girl is going to go to college some day too. Are you going to lump her in with the "Whores" once she does, since all college girls are whores according to you?
You talk like you think you're above everyone else in college already. You're only a freshman, and not even out of your teens. You have comparatively almost no real-life experience. Nobody likes the kid who thinks he's a mature adult.