Should I leave my girlfriend? Pic related. I don't have anyone else to fall back on.
I've been with her for around 8 months now, there's very little that I see "wrong" with her or not what I want; she's a bit over-weight, body is a bit meh.
What should I do?
so her aesthetics aren't up to your standards so you want to drop her? what about how well you get along with her? Also I've run into an issue where a girl i was dating nuked her aesthetics and sex appeal because of the safety of the relationship, so i brought it up and we started working out together.
>what about how well you get along with her
That made me think a bit..but I mean I'm still a virgin, I want to lost my v card to someone who's also a virgin.
Is it even worth it to keep my virginity until marriage or is the shit just overhyped?
Maybe I'm just being stubborn.
You're right though, either way I'll be happy with or without her.
Stop thinking about the v-card thing. Girls can pop their cherry just from riding a horse, and I forget whatever rough things. For guys it's just sticking your dick in something, you don't lose or gain anything other than experience.
And if you keep waiting, you also keep getting older, and it'll be harder to find someone who is waiting because most adults don't do that. Your only hope would be finding someone very religious, and if you plan to stay with them you'd probably need to convert and raise your kids that way.
I pretty much saw that coming.
Too bad it doesn't matter that much anymore.
Thank you, anon.
No, you're still an asshole. Imagine if one of her friends saw this thread, with you, her boyfriend, posting several pictures of her with comments like "she's a bit overweight, body is a bit meh."
Break up with her, but don't fucking humiliate her, asshole. I don't think I know a single person who'd be dumb enough to think that was an acceptable thing to do.
Can someone explain to me why this is a thing?
Why do people stay in relationships if they don't like the person enough to cheat/talk shit about anyways?
Why don't they just become single until they find someone else?
Why do they not think it's a dick move to have a "plan B" person to go to when they dump plan A? That's literally insulting to BOTH people.
Relationships really don't need to be this complicated