So last night I had just had sex with my gf (it was her 1st time) and I was able to get her off but like my 1st time, I was unable to because I'm just taking to damn long (1 hour or more going at it). We do plenty of foreplay, even before that I avoided masturbating for a week but idk why and this is a problem. I don't have that deathgrip syndrome where ive conditioned myself to only cum by hand but idk what the deal is. I've been reducing the amount of habitual masturbation also, and my next fuck session will be this valentines obviously so.. Tips to actually cum in at least 15-30 mins during sex?
Yeah, relax, anon. You focused on her pretty intently. Now you can relax a bit. You'll be OK.
Consider it a gift, most guys can't last long enough.
When you want to cum, have her do something that reaaalllly turns you on. Like give you head while she plays with her tits, or something.
What I do when I'm ready to cum is fuck my gf doggy style while staring at her asshole. For some reason it just blows my mind, then I cum on it.
It's still almost just as bad because we both end the session leaving kinda disappointed because shes invested time to also get me off but she can and I'm obviously disappointed cause I didn't get the climax I wanted.
Do you jerk off a lot usually? do you jerk off to porn?
If so then theres your problem, your dick is dead when it comes to sensitivity because you are watching the lewdest shit with an iron grip on your dick that your gf can't compete with.
Lay off the porn and wanking for a while and keep trying.
You will get your sensitivity back.