>>16776136 Call them if you know you're not likely to run into them in public I knew I'd typically see the girl I wanted to ask out every friday since she goes into my corner of the library to do homework while I'm working I never even asked for her number until we had already scheduled our first date
>>16776045 In my personal experience, text conversations, unless its a constant stream of blantantly sexual/flirty, have a tendency to just become pleasant or polite exchanges.
In general, I would say that the aim is for them to reveal certain qualities/info to you, you to reciprocate that exchange of qualities, but at the same time keeping it 'flirty' or, at least, 'romantic' in nature.
-A majority of the time, attempt to drive conversation forward using statements and not questions - questions are fine, just try not to over-use them. If you really have to say things like "I bet you like X; I think you're a bit a X; etc" -It is quite normal for guys to have to drive the conversation forward/ask questions and then, once a response is given, provide their perspective on the matter (you can use this to your advantage ofc). -Try to at least throw flirty comments in from time to time (it can feel shoehorned at times - but I've personally let a few too many exchanges become 'friendly' exchanges). The best line I've come up with to breaking out of a polite exchange is - "you're so polite/considerate. but I bet you got a bit of a wild side", this usually results in the response "maybe", and you just go from there.
Practice and experience is key here because if you are able to do this quickly/snap-responding/live-texting you come off as a lot more charming and witty. Seriously, just jump on tinder or something and talk to everyone - it doesn't matter. You don't even have to catch up with anyone (good mentality to have actually, if you get laid in the process its a bonus!)
Google "Tom Brady Be Attractive SNL Skit". It's true for most of life. You can be attractive and say dumb shit and girls will like you, you can also be unattractive and say great/smart/witty things and she won't be into you because you're not attractive.
>>16776466 I think he meant that if you're attractive, women will still want to talk to you, even if you say dumb shit. Like when you're texting a really hot girl, I doubt you'd care if she wasn't that great at texting.
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