but he has a gf .... but he's rly cool and I like him alot. pls help
I kind of disagree, I used to like a girl, but I became her friend. Even though she eventually left her boyfriend, I just lost love for her, and loved her as a brother or sister.
Good for you. I think it's possible to be friends, but just not the normal outcome. Those thick and heavy emotions will often complicate platonic relationships. But like this anon says OP, it is possible of you can keep your emotions in check and have a good level of stable control over how you feel.