meet this girl on tinder 1 week a go and everything went perfect on the first date, lots of things in common, we talked for like 5 hours and it felt like seconds we kissed passionately at the beach, 10/10 first date.
It was so good we meet again the very next day, we kissed a lot she moved my hands to her ass and I fondled her a bit, everything went great we spent like 7 hours together ate some pizza talked, about deep stuff, I really liked her, I fell for her.
But as usual when I fall for someone I become creepy as fuck
So she got busy because she is leaving the country in about 2 weeks, I wanted to meet her one last time before she leaves but first she took a day to respond to my message, this went on for a week, I messaged her instantly and then she took a whole day to respond, so I called her out about it she said she was sorry ok maybe not creepy but it gets worse, she usually reads my messages and responds right away she never leaves me seen but then yesterday I wanted to writte her something nice and then invite her out so I wrotte lyrics from a song I was listening that described how I felt.
I sent the following message
>I miss every last line of your profile, every shade of your complexion, every tone of your skin...
Ofc she doesn't know the song, she saw the message and didn't respond and now that I read it it sounds creepy.
Did I turn her off by being needy? I have troubles realizing when I'm creepy, I stalked the shit out of her facebook and friends. I'm good at not being creepy in person but when I have time for myself I become a stalker creepy piece of shit.
>tl;dr wrotte I miss every last line of your profile , every shade of your complexion, every tone of your skin.... to a girl I'm dating and I want to know if it's creepy.
It's not a one night stand tho, she was serious about the relationship, so was I
It's still corny tho, I feel terrible about it desu
I showed it to a friend and he said he is surprised she didn't didn't call the police on me.
So I definetly turned her off and I can kiss goodbye any hope of fucking dat pussy right?
I just don't want to believe that 3 lines absolutely fucked 2 dates and a bunch of convos.
Alright, here we go.
You done goofed OP. She wanted you to fuck her on the second date but you were too big of a pussy to do it.
Now she has moved on/found someone else and doesnt need to fuck around anymore.
Move on and try not to fall for someone that wont be there in 3 weeks next time.
It sucks for you now, but this is the advice you need to hear.
I actually tried to take her to my place but she told me she wanted to take it slower so she called a taxi and she teased me until the taxi came touching my dick and shit the absolute worst, She didn't quite say it but I think she might be a virgin
I'm 21 she is 18
Write her that after reading dat message urself, realizing she doesnt know its from a song u like, shes must think ur a serialkiller *add some humor to it* and then when she replies, wait for atleast an hour before responding
Look at it this way OP. She wanted to tease you but in the end decided against it.
She doesnt reply, nor does she give you the time of day and as such you dont matter to her as much as you did in the past.
Move on. she apparently has already.
Also, with your whole "song creepiness": Yes, it can be considered as such, but when you wrote it you were already pretty far from the shore and thus desperate. Your attempt failed and that is that.
Move on, friend.
>but when you wrote it you were already pretty far from the shore and thus desperate.
describes it perfectly.
I just didn't want to let it go, I like her so much.
But you're right m8, it's over.
Have you ever considered that she is probably seeing another guys besides you? 18yo girls tend to have a lot of attention from thirsty creepys like you, she met you on tinder, this says something
Listen mate. Thats life and thats what can happen to you. I was in a similar situation in december and feel better now. Time & meeting other people will do the trick, just look forwards & not backwards.