>gay guy in our group keeps trying to 'subtly' out me
>i want him to stop
wat do? im tryna avoid having a private conversation about it, because i dont want to give the impression that its okay as long as were in private.
is there a magical third option to get him to stop or do i have to make a sacrifice here?
the closets so comfy
i didnt tell him. i think its a gaydar thing. idk if my other friends believe or think i might be gay, bu they operate under the assumption that i am straight, and that has been surprisingly more comfortable so i wish to stick with it.
plus after two years its kinda hard to work in the whole 'by the way i sleep with men' thing.
maybe, i dont want to be dramatic with it, but theres no cheat codes in life. this sounds like the easiest way to shut him down without outing myself.
idk i feel like if i confirm outwardly that im gay by hitting up his roommate he'll just try to tease me even more in front of the gang. i have flited with his roomie in private though and he didnt seem into me, so moot point either way.
gonna go with publicly shutting him down for now. i mean if he wants to call me out in public no reason i cant do the same