>>16773688 >why do you want a girl friend? >you don't NEED a girl friend >you should be happy by yourself and then find love :)
All of this advice is bullshit and it comes from people already in a relationship and who don't have to worry about it. Love is great, infact for most people they would say it's literally the best thing in the world. That's why people write songs, books, stories, movies, and concepts about love. That's why people are constantly talking about it.
And people can turn a bit bitter when they constantly hear how amazing love is but you haven't found it yet.
Online yes, IRL I'm one of the nicest people I know.
Not forever, of course. But get your act together: start building a life where you can be happy without one. The fact that you're desperate enough that you've counted the days for some 3-4 years shows, and it scares women like you wouldn't believe. You've got to ditch the desperation before you're going to have much of a chance.
>>16773849 If you had a gf >Have to waste you hard earned money on her >Have to spend time listening to her problems >Have to pretend like you care about any of the dumb bullshit she says >Have to entertain a child I don't see how having a gf would improve your circumstances.
>>16773836 >Your advice is bad and you should feel bad Care to elaborate? It's true that my thesis statemwnt is shocking, and deliberately so. But the concept -that desperation pushes women away, and so he needs to resolve it before finding a gf- is a sound one, is it not?
As for why to word it in a shocking way: OP has doubtless hears this dozens of times already, and likely built up a defense against it by learning to tune it out. I had to get past that.
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