Is teenage sex good?
I'm in my twenties now and the feeling that I missed out on something that might've been great is painful sometimes.
20 year old speaking here.
Lost virginity at 15/16
blow job was (at the time) one of the best experiences ever.
Sex at 20 is way better
Its not about the age.
It about how good you get at it from past experiences.
I dated a girl in High School who I lost my virginity to.
She was a virgin too, shit was wild. She had so much hormones and seduced my into fucking her. Never met a girl who wanted my dick so badly. She would literally pull my dick out and put it inside her as we were cuddling watching a movie.
I don't know how, I think it was because I drank lots of mountain dew which kills your sperm count, but I was able to fuck her nonstop without cumming as long as I wanted. Sometimes I couldn't even finish, but I would put her on the bed while I stood up and pound her. Grab her legs and use her body as momentum to pound. She had a perfect ass, nice tits, good face, but she was fucking crazy. Refused to get birth control and after a while of doing pull outs I started to get sketched out and eventually left her because she got so crazy. Turns out after I left she met a new guy and she got pregnant pretty soon after.
right before I left her I started talking to a new girl at the same school who I have had a crush on since sixth grade. She broke up with her long term boyfriend and I immediately asked her out.
She was wild at first too. Third time we hung out I started kissing her neck and she said "no it's too soon." I said "It's just kissing" and I kept kissing her neck and cheeks, eventually she gave in and we started making out. I reached for her huge tits which I've been waiting years to touch, and she said "noo I don't want to have sex with anyone unless we're in love." and I said "I love you." she gave me surprised eyes and said "I love you too" and she let me feel her tits. They're glorious, double d's and she's only 5 foot 2. Thick thighs, nice butt, tiny waist, big breasts.
We made out for a while then I dropped her off because I was about to jizz my pants. I could feel her hormones dripping off her.
The next time we hung out I ate her out in her car in the parking lot of a local park. Perfect pussy....
pt 2 coming up
So we go in her room at her mom's house and we are alone in the house. I say "so what do you want to do?" and she says "have sex." I say "ha, you're crazy." and she says "what, you don't want to fuck me?" and starts to pull down her shirt collar showing me the top of her tits.
I said "fuck you are sexy" and picked her up and threw her on to the other bed in the room.
It was the best sex I've ever had. so much passion. Our faces were covered in spit from making out so intensely, and I brought her to orgasm three times before I finally came. She was on birth control, so she let me cum inside her. First time I've ever done that, it felt amazing. After that we had sex three more times and then just held each other naked in bed, enjoying the warmth of each others body. She was perfect. Thick but not fat, eager but not slutty (only had sex with two guys before me, not bad in my book. one was a boyfriend of three years.), and she smelled really fucking good. Like candy and flowers.
We started dating and it was very sexual. Sex three-five times a day, each time better than the last. I think we had sex at least fifty times in the first month of dating. For a year we couldn't help but have sex multiple times a day, never experienced anything like it.
We've been dating for four years now. She got off birth control a few months ago so we don't have penetrative sex much anymore, unless I use a condom. mostly I just eat her out then cum on her tits, or she gives me head. But even without fucking her, it's super passionate. I don't need to try to make any moves with this girl, just talk to her and have fun and we both get turned on just being around each other.
Teenage sex is great if you meet the right person, otherwise it's just mindless pounding with no spark. Fun but nothing amazing. Finding a girl you truly love leads to crazy, passionate, spiritual, sex.
Here is the deal, teenage sex is mediocre, selfish, and awkward.
Sex as an adult is old hat. There is no sneaking around. There is no parents dropping you off or you riding your bike 7 miles to a girls house. There is no Having sex and spending the next monday in class thinking about it, wondering if the other likes you.
No, sex as an adult is just sex. It is insignificant. It doesn't make you special because everybody has already had sex or is currently having sex.
That feeling you or I will never get. The awkwardness, the newness. When I lost my virginity at 21 it was a 100% consensual act in the missionary position in a bedroom.
My girlfriend lost her virginity at 16 at 3 in the morning in a camper in her back yard to a boy she was dating who walked three blocks to her house.
Sex as an adult is: Find girl. Drive your own car from your own apartment to her own apartment. Have sex. Go to work and earn a paycheck.
Maybe I'm romanticizing it because I didn't get to experience it, but the closes thing I've found to getting that teenage feeling of sneaking around is cheating. But that is frowned upon here.
if sex with your partner isn't like a ritual where you both are communicating with your body and soul then you are sleeping with the wrong woman and wasting your time.
Even eating your girl out should feel like an animalistic out of body experience.
One thing I'm thankful to have learned in my 25 years on this earth is what my therapist calls insight.
It has helped me to feel less unhappy, or at least understand what other people feel.
Which poster are you? Do you really not think it is any different? Is what I described wrong?
It isn't that. I think I'm a sex addict. I've been reading about the cycle of addiction, and its like I feel happier when I feel empty inside. It is confusing and I don't quite understand it.
Like this one girl, I was 24 and she was 19, and we had sex on her bedroom floor, because she still lived with her parents, and I came in two minutes and awkwardly left, and told her we should stop seeing each other. Its like, I feel guilty and bad, but it makes me feel good about myself. It is all very confusing.
>I'm in my twenties now and the feeling that I missed out on something that might've been great is painful sometimes.
Having sex as a teenager, not that good. You barely know how to move.
Having sex with a teenager, might be fun if you take the charge.
Youngest girl I've had sex with was 17. That was when I was 18. Second youngest was 19. That was when I was 27.
You want to have "teenage" sex? Go fuck a 19 year old. You can do it. If I did it, you can do it.
>I'm in my twenties now and the feeling that I missed out on something that might've been great is painful sometimes.
All of us have missed out on something and know this pain. I know this pain.
The answer has many sides. First, the past is in the past. You only have the present so please try to make the best of it you can. i don't know why you yearn for "teenage" sex but you can still fuck teenagers. Legally (or not). Consider that it might not be too late as you seem to suppose.
Second, what is it that you think you've missed out on? As a recent girlfriend told me, "I've had a lot of bad sex." Hit the nail on the head. Most people have really, really bad sex in their teenage years and think it's awesome because they don't really know shit. The sex gets better as you get older because you start understanding what it is about sex that truly satisfies you. As a teen you're fumbling around figuratively and literally like an idiot.
And I had really good sex as a teenager. i was always good at sex because I tried to be. But even I look back and go... what the fuck man.
>Maybe I'm romanticizing it because I didn't get to experience it, but the closes thing I've found to getting that teenage feeling of sneaking around is cheating. But that is frowned upon here.
You're not getting creative. Let me help you:
>Drive to girlfriend house on lunch break at work
>Girlfriend is waiting in underwear with a packed bowl, lube, and food is cooking
I fucked my girlfriend up the ass while blazing, nutted in her, and then she fed me.
Then I went back to work blazed, fucked, and fed. That was at 27.
So your girlfriend and her camper can go fuck themselves and so can your attitude. YOUR boring.
Sorry, but that just sounds like boring adult stuff. There is no risk of getting caught by parents, or having friends mad at you. Like its mature. You drove yourself from your job to your girlfriends house where she was cooking food in her kitchen.
I want like, walk a mile to a girls house, meet up at mcdonalds, get dollar menu stuff because we have no money, then have sex in the woods behind the high school. (i've done that last bit, but I was like 23)
What age do you think we stop attracting teenage girls? I'm in my mid twenties and regularly get girls 17 - 19. I always thought they would think I was creepy when I was that old. I've even talked to some 16 year olds, but never did anything sexual.
Yet you knew what I meant...
>applications of a word often bear only a "family resemblance" to each other, and a variety of grammatical forms may be used to express the same basic thought. But under these conditions, Wittgenstein now realized, the hope of developing an ideal formal language that accurately pictures the world is not only impossibly difficult but also wrong-headed.
And when was the last time you were balls deep in a girl's asshole while taking a hit on your lunch break, may I ask?
Your attitude sucks. Not because you're "wrong," but because you fail to see the beauty in life. You're creating your own prison but creating something that doesn't exist in your mind and then missing it.
Its case IN point
Why are you replying to yourself? Also why trips? The whole point of being anon is being anon. Get it?
Teenage sex is akward and lousy, adult sex is way better. More self esteem, know the body better and know what feels good. Way better.
>blow job was (at the time) one of the best experiences ever.
tfw my first blowjob was terrible
>she kept stopping and asking if she was doing it right
>after 10 minutes she would keep stopping and saying that her last boyfriend would cum a lot quicker
>or that her last boyfriend thought she was great at them
>or that one time her last boyfriend didn't jack off for a month and came in her mouth so much that she couldn't hold it all in
I couldn't even finish myself by jerking off with her on top of me, ended up jacking off to porn later that night.
I'm an instrument of God sent to punish the wicked
I'm here not to get noticed
well you stick out, and in almost every thread. Its like a bunch of annons and then you, not sure if i like it. Well there is truckerfag, but he isn't annoying.
Sex is like wine, better with age.
I dare not lay with another man for it is an abomination to the Lord
The devil speaks through you
Make peace with your Gods for you shall soon meet them
>implying you're not a virgin
>implying a man or woman would ever sleep with you
It was one of the best experiences of my life - exploring sexuality with a chick who had a perfect body and was just as curious and eager to please.
No point in being sad about it though, there is nothing you can do to change it.
Get a job already faggot, ffs. You're worse than that fucking tiffany or whatever that dipshit's trip was, christ. And naming yourself after the shitty badguy in the shitty star wars? Ugh, pathetic
The only desire I have is for blood and steel
Found the assmad christfag.
The only desire I have is your mom.
My mom is old and ugly have fun
SOMETHING PROBLEMATIC MY DEAR FRIEND?
I believe in God
As a follower of god what do you think of this image?