My girlfriend has been crying over extremely small things that I say more often than normal lately, such as when I said that "I feel like you've been more sensitive lately to what I say to you, is something wrong?"
She's becoming way more sensitive out of nowhere when she's been normally relaxed and distant from what people say, and I can't get her to explain why because "she doesn't know". Then all she wants to do is have sex afterwards.
Can someone please explain what the fuck? I know she isn't pregnant, so that's ruled out. Also, how do I get her to stop crying so much when I'm a loving and caring boyfriend?
>when I'm a loving and caring boyfriend
What the fuck does that have to do with anything? She won't tell you why, so you have no idea why. Your feelings probably have nothing to do with it.
Best advice I can give you is that /adv/ will not be able to accurately diagnose this. Sounds like a mental disorder of some kind to me, but I'd let a professional suss that out.
I don't guilt her ever. Pressure at work is definitely a possibility, though she seems to be able to handle it.
So then what the hell could it be? I do my best to comfort her and let her know that I love her..I don't understand what it is I'm doing wrong at all.
>what I'm doing wrong
Could it be you are self-absorbed? Why do you assume it has anything to do with you? It could just be depression, which has no real "cause", it just fucking happens. Then because physical intimacy is an easy way to receive affection she wants to fuck to feel a tiny bit better.
No, she's been on her birth control for 3 weeks now. Lately as in the past few days.
19, so yeah a teenager. I think hormones could be a huge factor. So how do I deal with hormones? Sorry, first serious relationship; kind of new to this.
I'm not self-absorbed, I just blame myself right from the start. And it just fucking happens? She's a human being with a good degree of self-control
You are a child, you don't understand depression, and you blame yourself because you are the center of your own universe.
My out might be the reason she is crying.
You might have fucking nothing to do with why she is crying.
Depression is a serious illness and has nothing to do with self control. You want to help her? Ask her to go to therapy to talk with a professional about the reason she's crying.
>I don't guilt her ever.
I think anon was hinting that she might feel guilty about doing something, e.g. cheating.
Like other anons said, you really are self absorbed. Not everything revolves around what you're doing right or wrong.
>past few days
Lmao. Are you for real?
Also her recently changing her birth control and a change of her hormones could very well be the reason.
>You are a child
>Assuming my partner has depression
Jesus you're a pretentious asshole and a cunt. I know what depression is and I'm not interested hearing you constantly clinging onto the fact that it's a mental illness that you have no idea if she has or not.
I have no idea if she does, you are absolutely right.
But you clearly have no fucking clue if she does, because you have already assumed you are the reason she is crying.
You came here for advice when what you really wanted was for someone to tell you what you did wrong. The answer is we have no idea, and it is just as likely you did nothing wrong
That means YOU CANNOT FIX THIS. Do you understand now?
You know, if you are like this with her you may actually be the reason she's crying.
Hahahaha holy shit, did you just respond as if you were someone else? The number of posters didn't go up, jackass.
From my viewpoint. Chill. Get her something nice as a surprise chocolates a nice dinner out w.e. if she gets all cryie just give her a hug and wait till she's done crying. Then enjoy the sex. Make breakfast the next morning. Birth control takes a few months to normalize moodswings. Relax bro.