My sex drive is gone. The last time I fap was three years ago. I tried it with porn, pictures of naked women etc. Nothing helps. How do I get it back?
Do you have sex often?
Even if you don't fap, having a lot of sex that ends in ejaculation will still make you lose your sex drive.
Sometimes when I have sex with my gf, I choose not to cum because I know I don't have enough energy to. If we had sex the past three days and I came every time, I will just eat her out and focus on her.
If you're not having sex it's a medical issue and you should see a doctor. Unless you're lying and do fap often, then there's no reason why you should have no sex drive.
Stress maybe? A deeper issue?