Hey /adv/, I'm jobless and i don't have a home anymore. Asking a place to my family is out of the questione, and nobody will rent me a room without a job. starting tomorrow, i have no idea where i will sleep
Its fucking over. I won't be able to stand up again. I've been kicked out from every single parent already
But above everything, i feel so alone for some reason.
I don't know anymore. why my life has always been such a mess. Pic related, its what is left of my life
If you really can't ask family (better be a good reason for that) find out as much as you can about homeless shelters and whatever welfare you might be entitled to where you are. Sorry I don't have more to offer, good luck and stay strong anon.
>better be a good reason for that
The situation is so complex i sincerely don't know how to explain it without walls of text. the point is that no one is going to take me in their home. about welfare, there is about nothing for people like me
Even shit tier jobs are hard to come by.
A friend offered his place for some day, but it would be only a temporary solution
I have done physical job sometimes already, i'm sure i'm going to mess up something
also my friend already lives with his father sleeping in the kitchen, i don't want to bother him
Don't have a choice at the moment i guess.
man, i feel so bad. I've lost everything other times, but i just can't get used to it
this shit keeps repeating like a circle
I just wanted a normal boring life
is it really so much? so difficult di achieve?
no point in wishing for that life now you need to focus on getting back on the right path. i'm not saying it's going to be easy but it's possible and it starts with thinking "I can do this!" instead of "i'm a failure"
>WAAAAAAAAH IM A LAZY FUCK WHO CANT GET ANY JOB OR EVEN WELFARE WAAAAAAAH
Holy shit get a fucking job, at least that's better than rotting on the streets even if you do get fired after a while. Also you can probably apply for welfare, you're just retarded.
Dude this is the most important moment of your life, don't pass it up.
I remember reading about some anon who was homeless for 2 months slept on benches and shit, but that gave him the motivation to do something with himself so he found a shit tier job, but that experience made him hard as fuck so he kept grinding and now is rich or something fuck.
I've been through stuff like this already multiple times, that's why i feel so broken
there is literally no hope left
Sleeping in public is a point of no return. its the point where you just give up being anything else than a hobo.
I'm past my 30 man
That's because its like i'm dead already
i lost everything, every fucking thing
I got too used at having meals every day, clean clothes and fun with friends, so i forgot i'm trash and not people
>4chan please help me these are my problems
>ok do this
>no i cant do that
>ok how about this
>no i cant do that
>well what if you...
>no I cant do that
why do people even make these shit threads, what are you expecting us to do for you?
Go to a new city honestly yours sounds like shit
Go to Cali yeah you're homeless but you're in cali. Beg for change go steal a purse go rob someone at an atm get like 500 bucks and rent a weekly motel or find someone renting a room
>I'm sure I'm going to mess something up
This is not the right attitude. Everyone messes up. But you need to get a job. You will mess up, but that's okay. You need a job. You need money. Say it with me. I need a job. Period.
You will get better. You need to believe that.
OP, how badly do you want to succeed in life? Don't you have any goals or dreams? Isn't there something you're talented at? Are there people you love or care about? Are there people that love and care about you? How would they feel knowing that you've ended up like this?
If you really want something, you have to keep at it until you get what you want. If you don't stay determined, you'll never get anywhere. If you don't want to give up, do your absolute best. If you have given up, then nobody can help you.
I'm not in America, here things are complex if you're not a fresh out a boat
Actually i've already taken in considerazione that i might need to do something like that
I know, but positive speeches sound kind of empty in this situation
This is the people i'm in line with to get a id card for the shelter. Guess i'm really a fucking hobo now
My friend survived being homeless by befriending people and doing their laundry/cooking. Also, since you're homeless and don't have a job you can apply to foodstamps relatively easily, you need to do that.
To stay clean I recommend joining a gym with showers. I hope you turn out okay.
>the reason people don't want you living with them
Because its literally a whole bloodline of fuckheads. Great example is my father and his oedipus complex, accompanied with teenage anger management failures that end in him pretending to feel bad until someone plays the parte forgiving him
I'm most probably the only person in my family that actually tried to improve himself consciously
And this is the result
>That's hard to believe
I know, and there is nothing that can make it easier. Explanation are meaningless if you haven't lived that stuff first person
Actually at some point i started to believe i was the fucked up one, but since i have no problem dealing with any kind of person it can't be the case
I am going to write the following post in Italian so I can help OP get to the point and lead a better life.
In Italia si sta di merda. Purtroppo lo sappiamo tutti. Di dove sei, innanzitutto? Se vivi al Nord ti viene più facile cercare lavoro all'estero, vista la vicinanza geografica ed i collegamenti Ryanair.
Comunque, se cerchi lavoro per qualche mese, dai un occhio alle Job Guide di AnyworkAnywhere (è un sito che ha annunci di lavoro stagionali in giro per il mondo). Sennò, nei Paesi scandinavi c'è sempre lavoro stagionale ma dovrai vivere sopra il Circolo Polare Artico. Se hai una laurea, puoi insegnare inglese ai bambini delle elementari in Cina o Tailandia. Se vuoi proprio rimanere in Italia, cerca lavoro online (Upwork e affini) o lavora nei campi (mele in Trentino, pomodori in Puglia e Sardegna etc). Se vuoi seguire migliaia di italiani, vai a Londra e trova un lavoro al McDonald's. Non serve sapere bene l'inglese, visto che sono lavori sottopagati per gli standard britannici.
Spero di averti aiutato.
Sto in Piemonte, che e uno dei posti messi peggio per il lavoro
La priorità per ora e trovare una sistemazione che duri più di una settimana, a dire il vero non ci avevo pensato a lavorare all'estero. Hai ragione per quanto riguarda i servizi sociali, stamattina ho fatto un giro e in pratica non fanno un cazzo
sono troppo vecchio per arruolarmi purtroppo, e comunque un diploma superiore come il mip non serve a molto
Stasera faccio un giro su /int/ magari
Si ma in genere lo fanno a coppie e persone referenziate
Adesso sono in attesa per un paio di lavori e un WOOF da queste parti
Tonight i'm still fine though. I hope i can convince an estate agent tomorrow and have a room with the promise of a job in the near future
Don't wash yourself, tear up your clothes a little, get sandals and burn your passport.
Now pretend to be a refugee (not syrian, something like afghani who doesn't speak arabic). Go to the nearest refugee shelter or border and get free shelter, food and medical attention.
Spostati in una città medio-piccola, dove abito io (nord est) una camera in affitto la trovi a 200€ al mese. Con un lavoro qualsiasi, anche da McDonalds, riesci a comprire almeno le spese abitative e il cibo.
let them speak italian. if you had noplace to ask for help except 2chan, and you saw another american on there who could advise you, what would you rather they do? write it out in english? or translate it into japanese so you have to translate it back again, almost inevitably adding errors and possibly causing misunderstandings?
I know this is an english language board, and ordinarily I'd be agree with you 100%. but the guy's about to become homeless, and it's not like any of us amerifags know how the fucking italian public assistance system works. cut him a little slack. if you're so hot to know what they're saying, run it thru google translate.
Mi sembra che ci sia poca gente disposta a dare anche solo camere senza buste paghe. quindi se mi nuovo vado a in ostello sicuramente. Forse ho trovato una, ma mi sa che affitta solo a donne. badanti rumene probabilmente
Its just a matter of practicity with local terms i guess.
Dipende. Se cerchi una singola stanza e non interi appartamenti, la gente è più tranquilla e affitta anche senza busta paga. Ovviamente eviterei di dire "Sono un disoccupato senza tetto", però non mi sembra un grosso problema.
get a tent, if it's snowing then i don't really know.
you could build an igloo (which keep you warm off the snows insulation plus body hit just need something to lay over the snow) if there was enough snow and able to, but i don't live in a country with snow
there's usually places that will give accomodation+food for work, look online and see. depends on country but a lot of countries do it because giving them a caravan/shed or something to sleep in, plus food is cheaper then paying them minimum wage. they're also run pretty shadily and they don't treat workers as good
if you need food then learn how to fish and trap... you can trap fish for food/bait using only sticks (make a shape like [V], with the V entrance facing away from the shore). they swim in through the wide V mouth, then go to the walls and get stuck there if lucky. you can get food for eating but also for bait. then with those you can weave a trap with the same principle, but its a box/semi-sphere and use it for crabs, and then while that is baiting fish with extra bait. you can buy bait hooks for cheap too which work well and will give you live bait, that's one of easiest ways to get them. prawns are easy bait too but you need a flashlight/net (go at night and shine flash light, they light up and you use the net to scoop them).
fishing is one of easiest and free ways to get food if you live in a coastal area.. finding plants with food is difficult, fishing you just have to find a river or ocean area.
trapping depending where you live can be easy too, but it's more difficult as you need knowledge of certian traps and it's a skill that takes longer to get good at compared to fihsing where getting bait is as easy as getting bait hooks, bobbing it up and down, hooking a line and throwing it out and waiting for a bite then pulling up and realing in. trapping you need to know where the game line is, set up a trap that will trigger properly, but not let the animals get the bait and go away.. plus more
also dumpster diving is a good way to get free food/money. it's more popular non-homeless now and who are doing well do it for extra money... so more people doing it makes it difficult. but they usually just go for goods like books/electronics etc. and leave food. it's illegal but not many people care. just know what foods are safe to eat and use common sense..
just watch out for homeless because they will prey on people to get money, doesn't maen all are bad but they're like drug users (which a lot of homeless are too, due to addiction forcing them into it).. most of them seem good, but eventually they'll betray you over 10-20 dollars
Its years that i do volunteering so i know homeless pretty well, getting fucked by them if i really hit the streets is my least worry. the fact is that sleeping outside is the start of a spiral extremely hard to escape
Earlier i got the contact of one of those catholic communities that live without internet, since they offer job, food and a place its probably a good idea to see if they can take me in
Its already my third day as guest in the monastery. shit
Well man try to get some odd jobs maybe if you live in a big city you can walk dogs or something and expand. Take any job you can get near where you're staying. Also it might not be a bad idea to look for shit to scrap I had a bunch of shit my family was throwing out and my neighbor asked if he could have it and we said sure. We gave him enough metal to barely fill the backseat of a car and he came back with a check for 60 dollars. He also takes old wiring that people are throwing out and strips the plastic off it and gets the copper wires out of it and makes like 20-30 dollars in a couple hours. Having a talent helps I heard musical talent helps a lot of homeless. Kylie Jenner just turned some homeless dude into a super model so who knows
how about asking the local, or any church about shelter. tell them your story and ask them for help. maby they will ask other member of the church to help you out, and who knows, maby they can give you a job or something.
i know its not easy but be strong man and get your shit to gether! the worst thing you can do, is beeing hopeless and weak.
I sympathise with OP. This looks like a thread I'll make in the future.
If I knew the grand solution, I'd share it with you. I'm trying to work out the puzzle of life myself.
I'd suggest putting your priorities into discovering where certain services are, food banks, charity/discount stores, social services offices.
Mental health services are real important. Food and clothes real important also.
If you have access to the Internet, avail of websites like 4chan. I'm starting the apps Two-Way Walkie Talkie and Telegram to speak to real people I meet on 4chan and elsewhere.
Here's the group if you wish to join. There's people on the other end who can offer suggestions and an objective assesment.
I was homeless for 2 years
I would usually find a high way bridge to sleep under when the homeless shelter was booked
If you live in Oregon go to union gospel mission you can literally go inside and watch movies all day, they serve 3 decent meals a day too
Guys i found a place holy shit
it looks like Bender's apartment but the owner agreed renting me even without job because i can pay the two months insurance(sorry i don't know how its called in english) instantly
An old niece want to talk me about giving me a contract for helping her with housekeeping
holy fuck i think i can actually pull it off
i'm so fucking happy i could cry