My bf has a really small penis. It literally does not bother me, as he can get me off really well from other ways, and I love him to pieces. But he is really sexually dominant and it bothers him he cant just fuck me like he wants.
Are there any pills, surgeries, etc he can look into that actually work? I thought of suggesting a strap-on but I feel like he would be upset at the idea. Plus it might hurt his junk. I don't know
Feel free to lol, I just want some advice.
you'll crush the little boy's heart. bad enough he's got a small dick but then his girl requests for him to use a strap on? fugg. may as well break up with him right now if you go that route.
if you feel your sex life is going to suffer because of his size then this is a serious problem. it'll nag you for the entirety of the relationship and you may grow to resent him because he can't satisfy you sexually.
you should seek different sex positions that allow him to get deeper. suggesting something like toys will also crush his confidence but i suppose it's better than a fucking strap-on.
Get a black surrogate. Your bf can still pay to date you, take you out to dinner, dancing, etc. At the end of the night, have him wait in the living room while a well-hung brother pleases you in ways his tiny cock can never hope to do.
Then go cuddle with whitebread.
Op here. I just want to be clear, I don't care about his size. As I said, he does perfectly fine as it is. I've told him this a lot, but he thinks I'm just saying it to be nice. He's the one who is extremely self-conscious about it.
I am just hoping to boost his confidence. I'm not asking to increase his size for my sake.
I am not sure if their is anything you can do about it. DO NOT ASK HIM TO TRY A STRAPON - that will crush any confidence he already has.
As for him thinking you are genuine in your reassurances, people are naturally skeptical, but there should be a reversal as time goes on, and he is exposed to your compliments more.
I think for him though, he just has to own it. Chances it won't change. There ain't no extenezz for this kind of stuff. Him accepting what tools he has and making the most of it would be best.
well, how big/small is he? you can pull up those bullshit statistics on "average penis size" if he's reasonably close and that should calm his anxiety a bit.
penis size is a big deal to guys. we attribute a lot of our worth to a woman by the size of our penis and skill in bed. i'm statistically big at 6.5 inch length but i'm still self-conscious of my penis size. when your sexual education throughout adolescence is based on porn and all you see are these petite girls taking 8 inch dicks and loving it, you start to wonder what sort of chance you have at satisfying a girl in bed.
as for confidence boosts, compliment him on his penis whenever you two are having sexual contact. you're blowing him? tell him it's perfect, that you love feeling his hard cock between your lips, that you can't get enough of his cum. laying around, watching a movie? lay your head in his lap, grab it, massage it, kiss it. apologize to him that you're not trying to tease him, that you just want to feel him get hard for you. during sex? that he fills you up, that you can feel it grow harder, how nice it feels, how he fucks you right, how it's perfect for your pussy.
no compliment talks about his size. compliment it in different ways and just make him feel wanted.
Something similar happend to me. I have a normal sized penis and my ex-gf said it was big and good blablabla. (Probably my penis is tiny, idk)
What really got my confidence up was being able to make her cum multiple times and last longer in bed.
Try aiming for that when fucking. getting him to make you sweat and lasting a long time.
Don't fake it, just tell him how you like it. If he sees you having pleasure, he'll forget about his tiny penis. I know that because it was my experience. maybe it's different for you.
Only solution is making it perfectly clear to him that it doesn't bother you.
If you need to even get mad at him, tell him his complaining and self pity annoy you a thousand times more than tiny peni.
>My bf has a really small penis
This thread is going to be great.
Now to read the rest of the OP
Literally the most disrespectful thing you can say to a man.
>he can get me off really well from other ways
man it feels good to be 7x5 here. I only have to bang her.
There is a surgery that cuts the tendon that the penis uses to stand. It gives you an extra inch or so. In theory it heals and your erection should stand again after it heals.
Its mainly what porn stars use.
Having a short penis sucks. I used to have a lot of fun with my ex girlfriend, but we couldn't do it with her on top because my dick kept slipping out dangerously (for me). I felt as if I was missing out 50% of the fun positions
part of the problem may be her inexperience in riding. she needs to be able to control her movements and minimize the chance of you slipping out.
unless you have a legit micropenis then no amount of care will stop it from flopping around.
>Are there any pills, surgeries, etc he can look into that actually work?
The problem isn't his penis, its his childish insecurity.
You have literally said its not a problem, that you love him and you can get off with him yet he still insists upon trying to alpha-fuck you and dominate you and its wholly unnecessary.
He needs to get over his shit and appreciate what he has.
There are no surgeries or pills that will make him bigger, and even if there were it wouldn't fix his feelings of inadequacy. His penis size is not preventing him in the slightest from "fucking you like he wants" at all.
Tell him to chill the fuck out. His feelings of inadequacy will eventually put a wedge in your sex life, which will eventually put a wedge in your relationship.
He's fine, everything is fine. Hammer that shit into his head.
>Its mainly what porn stars use.
Came in to say this. See Chris Strokes for a reference.
Imo, he needs a therapist to get him away from thinking about mangling himself in order to be happy.
In my town there's a place called NuMale that offer an I injection at the base of the penis that supposedly increases it by 1in an makes it last longer? But that place has had a lot of bad reviews from what I've seen
I favor a tough love approach for this kind of thing. Corner him one night and say something along the lines of,
EY YO LISTEN BITCH
ONLY GIRLS IN PORN CARE ABOUT THE SIZE OF YOUR DICK OKAY
I'M WITH YOU BECAUSE YOU MAKE ME CUM HARDER WHEN YOU PUT YOUR MOUTH OR FINGERS ON MY CLIT THAN ANY OF MY OTHER SHITTY PAST BOYFRIENDS EVER HAVE
IT LITERALLY DOES NOT MATTER HOW LONG YOUR DICK IS IM NOT CUMMING FROM PENETRATION EITHER WAY. LIKE NO GIRLS DO. I LIKE IT WHEN YOU FUCK ME AND CUM IN ME AND MAKE ME CUM AND THESE ARE ALL SEPARATE PHENOMENA
NOW ARE YOU GOING TO COME OVER HERE AND DO IT OR DO I HAVE TO RUN THE FAUCET ON MY CLIT AND DO IT MYSELF BITCH
There are some rings you can get to put around your dick to increase the girth. Does nothing for length, but less embarrassing than a strap on.
Encourage sex toys and bondage in general...
but pills are just scams.
>ONLY GIRLS IN PORN CARE ABOUT THE SIZE OF YOUR DICK OKAY
Lie. Will never work. This is why guys disregard women's opinions.
>I'M WITH YOU BECAUSE YOU MAKE ME CUM HARDER WHEN YOU PUT YOUR MOUTH OR FINGERS ON MY CLIT THAN ANY OF MY OTHER SHITTY PAST BOYFRIENDS EVER HAVE
kek just points out how he haves to compensate for his dick. way to emasculate him.
>IT LITERALLY DOES NOT MATTER HOW LONG YOUR DICK IS IM NOT CUMMING FROM PENETRATION EITHER WAY
Literally says his dick is too small to get you off
>LIKE NO GIRLS DO
Guys immediately disregard what youre saying when you lie.
>I LIKE IT WHEN YOU FUCK ME AND CUM IN ME AND MAKE ME CUM AND THESE ARE ALL SEPARATE PHENOMENA
every male wants to do all of these at the same time. you didnt address the issue.
idk it's just something i never think about, 7" isn't even that big. For me the much harder problem was learning how to flirt with girls and get them in the bedroom to begin with, I was a virgin for so long cause I had no balls or confidence.
small confidence is much worse than a small dick.
jeez... that really would suck. l never really thought about that sort of thing happening. i'm so used to girl's being happy on first sight and happily grabbing it.
>sushi = microdick
>fries = my dick
Generally, yes. A woman can train her body to be more appealing and conceal ugliness behind makeup. By the time she's married, they start to all look like shit anyways so it's game set.
A man, no matter how attractive, how powerful, or how fit, cannot make his dick any better. You could be the author of Karma Sutra and if you had a 3" dick you'd still never satisfy a woman with it.
i bet you think 4.5-5 inches is perfectly average.
that's a meme bro.
>Guys are conditioned to think anything under 6 is small
No they're not. It has been statistically proven again and again that women don't really care about the size of their partner's penis because for them its more about emotion and connection then riding a 10" hog but for some reason men INSIST upon making EVERYTHING about their dick size. Seriously man, the only people obsessed about the size of a man's dick is himself.
>Its because how much sluts discuss dicks.
You definitely talk like you don't have much experience with women.
You sound sympathetic, hats off.
The guy has insecurities about his penis size, which is ridiculous because as you know, most women don't give a shit about dick size.
I wouldn't try surgery or anything else. Just have him make do. You're happy, he can cum, what's the problem?
It's all in his head, big deal if he can't do certain positions.
He needs to get over his insecurity,
>It has been statistically proven again and again that women don't really care about the size of their partner's penis
No, its been proven the exact opposite. Women orgasm from larger penises. The statistic is just women are okay with not orgasming from sex.
Im 8". I dont have this problem. I just sympathize with dicklets.
You know what its like when a girl blush after looking at you then a banana.
>Im 8". I dont have this problem. I just sympathize with dicklets.
lol. no you're not.
>No, its been proven the exact opposite. Women orgasm from larger penises. The statistic is just women are okay with not orgasming from sex.
lol. no. 1000 times no. this statement couldn't be more wrong.
I know what you talking about, he wants to dominate like being on top and you facing down and things like that. But the penis can't reach the pussy (14cm here)
It can't be done, do anal for those.
Start with classic pussy fucking with condom then move to anal without it so he can do more things.
Pussyfucking= for your pleasure and his
Analfucking= He can do more positions
If the sex is fine on your end, level with him. Say "If I really cared about your dick size, I wouldn't have sex with you as much as I do".
If you don't think this would convince him, then just don't bring it up. Go about your relationship until he makes it a big deal, and then be sincere with him, making sure to be rational and not sugarcoat things.
Heres the study that proves dicklets will never satisfy a woman
>of the women experienced vaginal-only orgasms and had enough sexual partners to compare size experiences. Of these, 33.8 percent preferred longer-than-average penises, 60 percent said size made no difference and 6.3 percent said longer was less pleasurable than shorter.
>Supporting the hypothesis that size matters, Brody and his colleagues found the women who reported the highest number of vaginal orgasms in the past month were most likely to say that longer was better.
>"This might be due at least in part to greater ability of a longer penis to stimulate the entire length of the vagina, and the cervix,
Women might say dick size doesnt matter, but if they want to get off then it does.
Your post is dripping with so much spaghetti sauce I dare not touch it.
... a girl blush after looking at you then a banana....
so the girl looks at you.... and then a banana.... and THEN blushes? Why is she blushing?
Are you in the same room with girls and bananas frequently?
So you're obviously eluding to the fact that your cock is so huge that girls blush after looking at both you and a banana and I'm just not understanding here.
Can anyone fucking help with this?????
I'm really trying to wrap my mind around what slice of asperger heaven you cooked up this ridiculous little scenario and I just can't manage.
lol. alright man. i'm out. your impenetrable autism armor is just too much for me.
Try eating fruit. Try having a gf who isnt a fat piece of shit and eats fruit. Try having a gf who eats bananas around you.
bonus is to try lounging around naked with your gf as well.
having a small penis is pretty normal, that's not the problem
sounds to me like he has unrealistic performance expectations because he watches too much porn
he's probably dominant as a counter-reaction to not thinking he's much good
A small penis is, by definition, not "normal" retard. Average penis size detemines what is and isn't "normal", if your penis is below average then it's small and therefore abnormal.
Strange thread this... Back in early times (Roman hayday) having a large dick was a thing of shame! Check out the statues in Rome. Somehow men have been turned into walking stages to showcase bigus dickus.
Suppose I am really interested in where this change stemmed from and what it means.
I extremely suggest a sex therapist. The therapist could teach you both some new stuff to do with his penis and give you two advice on sex anyways.
I hope that you two can work something out to make sure you two have a wonderful and a healthy relationship.
Back in those days no one gave a shit about if a woman enjoyed sex. Her role was just to please men.
Woman were in waiting, prepping for marriage. Now woman get their pick of the litter of men.